I actually like the 1st. posts of newcomers that have their "life story". I think the introductory posts help me get to know where the poster is coming from. We all have our own unique point of view and perspectives based on our experiences.
If there is a post that gets "an emotional response" from me, I look up their post history to get a feel for that person's perspective.
If it is a new poster, I reserve judgment and opinions until I hear more from them.
I like the way posters like Kate, Flipper, Jnat, Clarity , Lois and many others respond and greet new ones. They made me feel welcome and understood.
Hopefully more posters will reserve judgement before calling troll.
Refusing to rise to the bait will be discouragement enough.
I am glad Kate and Frazzled got to meet Panthers and that it went well.
Miss.Fit giving people the benefit of the doubt.