thinking of leaving

by justme67 50 Replies latest watchtower beliefs

  • givemejustalittlemoretime
    givemejustalittlemoretime

    A man who stands for nothing will fall for anything.So standup for youself walk in power, confidence and freedom as afree man and dont look back

  • DesirousOfChange
    DesirousOfChange

    ExWTslave: Welcome JustMe67. Just fade from them GRADUALLY, put the blame on busy secular commitments. They will do some shepherding calls on you--let them do it, and just listen and let them go. This will spare you of being shunned by them!

    Yep, with no family connections, it should go pretty smoothly.

    Doc

  • Pistoff
    Pistoff

    Don't tell them what you have learned, just pretend to be discouraged, or busy, or both.

    They will not understand, they will not listen.

    They only want to figure out if you are in or out.

    Don't be manipulated.

  • clarity
    clarity

    Welcome to the site Justme ...you will find

    support here while you get your feet back

    under you. Clear your mind from all the

    nonsense jw's spew out & start a real

    foundation for living!

    Best wishes to you young man.

    clarity

  • goingthruthemotions
    goingthruthemotions

    RUN RUN RUN.....if you could get out. do it.

    GTTM

  • goingthruthemotions
    goingthruthemotions

    you need to read crisis of consience.

  • Quandry
    Quandry

    Welcome.

    Good for you for investigating further and making an informed decision. I wish I had done a more thorough investigation before I became a JW. Of course, that was in 1973 and I was young and impressionable. Now I am out of the organization after more than thirty years, and don't have to look at children as "refuse" or try to wrap my head around the destruction of millions.

    Enjoy life. Please make goals of improvement and enjoyment of life.

  • milola
    milola

    Heck, if it was me in your situation, I would give them an earful from the platform and let them escort me out. Have a happy life whatever method you choose.

  • jgnat
    jgnat

    Fading is for Witnesses who have loved ones with whom they don't want to lose touch. Crisis of Conscience is for exiting Witnesses with questions. You are neither. You can stop attending today. Write a resignation letter if it helps you with closure but don't expect your concerns to be taken seriously.

  • DocHouse
    DocHouse

    Justme- if your faith rested on the 'GB'- you have HAD no faith.

    Truth is a seperate thing; we are simply trying to follow Jesdus example the best we can; but the world is FAR different and more complex than then!

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