I'd like to take "fact" off the table. There are trustworthy precepts that can be counted on in this world, including gravity and trees. There are trustworthy facts that do not change.
When it comes to parent's affections, love, and relationships that's a completely different kettle of fish. Mother, Father, Elder, God...are loaded roles. We attach authority, respect, expectations to these roles. What does a child do whose parent does not live up to their end of the deal, leaving the child an emotional orphan? The child may have to emotionally disinherit their biological parent in order to survive. Consider also the stigma attached to a "bad mother"? I've seen spectacularly unfit women fight for their children. I suspect they fight so hard to prove to the "world" they are not unfit, a weird sort of narcisisim where the children suffer twice over.
It is common for cults to redefine terms (read 1984). Heck, propogandists do it all the time. What exactly does a "peacekeeper" do?
What does it really mean to "Make Jehovah Sad"?