Pyschdigg writes:
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It isn't fair to speculate on the antics of a person who goes on a rampage. You can't blame organizations for the behavior of a crazy person unless they advocate the kind of acting out you are suggesting. The Watchtower does not tell people to return evil for evil.
The Watchtower could change into the kind of "open" organization you desire and it still could be the victim of someone who goes crazy.
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The Watchtower does not, as you acknowledge, tell people to return evil for evil. However, there is an unspoken message that registers in the minds of JWs with their doctrine that makes death a desirable state of being for someone in so much turmoil and anguish.
I've had people tell me that my children "would be better off if they were taken out in the back yard and had their heads blown off with a gun" if I continued in being an 'inactive' JW - that way their resurrection in the Paradise would be guaranteed.
I've heard depressed people in anguish confide to me that they feel so bad that they think they would be better off walking in the path of a speeding locomotive/putting a gun to their head and pulling the trigger/finishing off a bottle of tricyclic antidepressants/etc so that they could just get it over with and "wake up in the New System".
There have been people - some of them here on this board - who have been unjustly DFd by corrupt bodies of elders on trumped up charges, who initially felt that suicide was the only way of circumventing having to be destroyed at Armageddon. Fortunately, they changed their minds.
There are countless others who are so overwhelmed by the burden of shame and guilt that they can never meet Jehovah's standards, no matter how hard they try, that they have taken their own life and, in some tragic cases, the lives of their spouse and children also.
This is the legacy of the "happiest people on earth".
Love, Scully