A Sister Speaks Out!

by silentlambs 21 Replies latest jw friends

  • silentlambs
    silentlambs

    The following is a letter I recieved to day on the silentlambs email. It seems brothers and sisters are becoming more willing to speak out on this matter.

    silentlambs

    June 10, 2002

    Watchtower

    25 Columbia Heights

    Brooklyn NY. 11201

    Dear Brothers,

    It has taken me two weeks to write to you after the airing of Dateline. I have been baptized for almost 23 years. What I have learned concerning the pedophiles amongst us is very disturbing to me! Some of The Friends dont have the courage to write, how much courage does it take to stand up for what is right? Very little in my humble opinion!

    As a baptized witness of Jehovah for a long time Ive always prided myself in saying I was a Witness but not any longer! Im ashamed and hurt by what Ive come to learn in the past couple of weeks! Why are you harboring known pedophiles by allowing them to remain in our congregations? I simply dont understand! How does Jehovah look upon those who have taken the innocence away from our dear children? More important how does Jehovah view The Watchtower Society for allowing this to continue?

    My entire life I thought we were different than the world that we had Gods blessing. Do we have Jehovahs blessing when youre allowing a few select Elders within the congregations to know of a known pedophile and choose to keep it secret? Do you think Jehovah and his Son, Christ Jesus approve of your actions? I hang my head in shame and disbelief!

    Have you read the heart felt letters and yes, sometimes angry letters on the Silent Lambs website? We are told they are Apostates, well that simply isnt true! As of this day, all those on Dateline are still in good standing. Please dont silence them! There are many children among us that are hurting and have been hurt and continue to hurt if something isnt done! Do you know how long it takes for someone who has been molested/raped to come forth? I know from personal experience, it can take almost a lifetime!

    You have done so much damage by keeping silent! Im sad, upset and ready to walk away forever! The Awakes and Watchtower magazines over the years have given us suggestions on how to protect our children. Was I to know, that I had to protect my child within Gods Organization, too? I had no idea that child molesters are among us!

    What about the victims that dont have two witnesses? Child molesters dont commit their crime for others to see! Molesting/raping a child is a crime and needs to be brought to the authorities whether we are obligated by law to do so or not! Its the moral, loving and right thing to do!

    There has to be a way to protect children from being victimized any more in our congregations! This must stop now! I for one will never come back to a Kingdom Hall until things change! There have been things I dont agree with over the years but I figured that either your understanding or my understanding would change. That was ok with me. I was willing to wait on Jehovah but Im not willing to wait when it comes to those who rape our children and then still attend meetings and go out in Field Service. Dont you put the public in harms way when you allow pedophiles to knock on their doors?

    You owe the victims and their families an apology! You owe The Sheep an apology for allowing this to continue for so many years! You owe the world an apology, for they are watching to see what you do! And last but certainly not least, remember our Heavenly father Jehovah & his Son are watching and expecting you to act with meekness and humbleness in this matter!

    Sincerely,

  • Room 215
    Room 215

    Silentlambs...

    It seems your correspondent's penchant for exclamation points is a result of her absorption in the Watchtower-- or the comic books.

  • Matty
    Matty

    Do Jehovah's Witnesses have a habit of using too many exclamation marks?!! Surely not?!!!

  • garybuss
    garybuss



    Apparently she didn't have a problem with children dying for lack of blood medical treatment for the last 40 years or so. Or with broken families due to the shunning practice. Or with a pyramid of failed predictions and broken promises.

    Oh well!

  • nita6368
    nita6368

    I may be wrong but I think her letter takes a lot of guts, its easy for us on the outside to criticize the org---we should all remember how hard it is to do it on the inside. As far as the blood issue, all witnesses are fed the same crap about the sanctity of blood and many of us went along with it thinking we were right. I can't understand the criticism about the exclamation points...what difference does it make.

  • SloBoy
    SloBoy

    Thanks Bill for the post, may the tide continue to turn. I am a bit concerned about some of the responses given regarding Winesses coming around to reality. Didn't it take all of us some time to work through the process of coming to terms with what the WBTS stands for? It happens, at times incrementally, and this through education. I am now able to allow this process to unfold for countless others as I do my part to continue the proliferation of real facts. Anyone begining the process of sincerely questioning the WBTS should be encouaged.

  • crawdad2
    crawdad2

    hi silent lambs, and the sincere person who wrote that letter........ thank you so much for having the courage to stand up for little children that are being molested.

    thank you for having the courage and dignity to stand up.

    as far as anyone on this site who wants to criticise sincere individuals who are waking up and coming forward, .......making fun of exclamation marks and such, and asking how they could be so stupid as to accept all the rest of the doctrines,.........please shut up, you are disgusting me...... you make me sick!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • LB
    LB

    Oh come on nitpickers. So it took child molestation to wake her up. She woke up. That's a bit more serious than getting the dates wrong.

  • Matty
    Matty

    I think the exclamation marks sum up her anger and frustration, its as if shes shouting, 'look, wake up for goodness sake!!'

    Edited by - matty on 10 June 2002 15:9:13

  • ThatSucks
    ThatSucks

    I wonder how the "loving brothers" will address her concerns:

    Elder: Okay, so you don't want to be one of Jehovah's Witnesses. You have made your stand clear. We will announce it tomorrow.

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