Moe,
I tend to agree with you. I remember reading in the paper about families in Aftganistan selling infants to feed their family for a month. Their reasoning is that if they didn't do that, they would have to watch their whole family starve to death. I can't imagine the anguish in having to do such a thing. Yes, our priorities in the western world can get a little warped. I see on the evening news about people in Beverly Hills throwing lavish birthday parties for their DOGS. Now, I love dogs, but sheesh! a bit over the top, if you ask me.
As easy life? Perhaps some. I'm glad for them. However, I know of a few people that are MUCH better off than me fiancially, yet, I wouldn't trade places with them no matter what. Think about that poor family in Utah who had their daughter kidnapped. They are very affuent. I bet they would give it all up just to have their little girl back with them safe and sound.
Now, I know that many very painful experiences are shared on here. Some just break my heart. Yet, because those people happen to live in a county with higher living standards, that pain should be trivialized? Should the stand be taken that because you have food in your belly, and a roof over your head, you shouldn't get pissed about being raped?
Should I just keep quiet about my Dad holding my newborn infant sister by the ankles, head down, over the running garbage disposal, when I was 4 years old,because he thought it was fun to watch me scream and cry? Or should I just shut-up because I'm lucky I live in the US?
Now, this is a place were much pain and anguish is shared. Lots of venting goes on. However, that is probably only a very small part of who those people are. The nature of this board is to share the common experience of the WTS and how it has touched, influenced, or damaged our lives. There is also joy and triumph that is shared and lots of bittersweet.
Yes, some good things happened in my life. I was determined to marry a great guy, and I did. We don't have much (by US standards) but we love each other and are committed to each other and our children. We appreciate the small things like getting up before the kids and sharing quiet conversation over a cup a coffee.
I'm really glad your parents loved you so much, Moe. I hope you are coping well with recent loss of your Mother.
Love,
Andee
Edited by - BeautifulGarbage on 19 June 2002 14:23:9