I'm sure there all sorts of different ages of curious jws and xjws who come on here so your points are welll taken fusiontheism. I think it is important to make such observations too provided you are simply making an observation about what an individual can do if they feel they are being bullied. At the KH you are expected to to treat bullies with respect and to quit murmmering against exalted ones. that is not expected here nor do you have to be angry and abusive to show that you can defend yourself. best advice is to leave an angry abusve poster to get over his angst.
so long as there are name callers and angry posts I think it is perfectly acceptable to object to them from time to time.