Nekked women

by teejay 34 Replies latest social relationships

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  joannadandy

  First of all ya made a classic error in debate by generalizing with the y'all-implying all women. BIG OOPS! There will always be exceptions to the rules. Other than that I have no problem with what you are saying....

  Why y'all got a problem with the way we are?

  I don't mind if he looks, I know he does. I also know he is coming home with me. If however I find out that he has done more than look, ie touch, kiss, fondle, fornicate, I have a reason to be upset. But hell, I look, why would I expect him not to?

  Why y'all get so offended if you find a Playboy up on the top shelf of your husband's closet?

  I would only be upset that he wasn't sharing the porn-goodness with me, and that he thought he had to hide it from me.

  Your man don't mean *you* no harm. So, why you trippin'?

  Last I checked I didn't. And this strikes me as a misconception and stereotype that all women behave this way...
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  Trauma_Hound

  Me personally have never lost interest in the person I was with because I saw someone 'better looking', I like looking at beauty, the reason I lost interest was because of they're personality, I could look at naked super models all day, and still want to be with the one I'm with, as long as I wasn't being treated like crap. If I'm really into a person, and there's passion in my relationship, and everything is going great, then I have a monster labido, and not for anyone else.
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  bluesapphire

  Well, I wasn't going to respond to this thread because I fall into the minority who DOES MIND if her husband looks.

  We look at porno magazines together and we watch porno and such and that doesn't bother me. We do it together and have a good time. Plus it gets us more horny.

  But for some reason (be it insecurity or whatever) I have a terrible jealous streak in me. I try to talk myself out of it all the time but the jealous feelings are there no matter what I do to hide them on the surface. It's inside me. I feel this heat in my head and pain in my heart. If I could, I would make it go away. But it wont.

  I have tried analyzing the reasons but haven't come up with any answers.

  The thing is that HE is jealous too. So go figure!
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  LDH

  UMMMMMM *MAJOR* point of clarification here. "natural" women doesn't necessarily include the adjective "BIG" women.

  That picture almost made *ME* barf, and I ain't even a man.

  Teejay, are you saying you like NATURAL women, or THICK NATURAL women.

  BIGGGGG difference, no pun intended, LOL.

  Lisa

  NATURAL but not THICK Class
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  teejay

  >>> *MAJOR* point of clarification here. "natural" women doesn't necessarily include the adjective "BIG" women.

  Ya had me laffin', Lisa!

  Indeed! "Natural" to me means just that: natural. Iow, I guess I'm not the average man cause I don't care ONE BIT for fake boobs, fake hair, fake nails... whatever. I like natural. And a limited amount of make-up and jewelry, while you're at it.

  As to big vs. thick...

  I don't personally care for women who are clearly over-weight. COMF has more than a right to like women with rolls and rolls of jelly, but I'm personally not into that.

  Thick, imo, just ain't the same thing. Think Janet Jackson (or Serena). Don't get me wrong. I'm not a big fan of either, but I could definitely work with that body type. They be thick, not big. That's what I'm talking about.

  Otoh, think Aretha Franklin. She be big and, well... fat. Not my style.

  Queen Latifah, otoh, is big (and natural) but also FIT, which for me is a crucial difference over Aretha. (Regardless of the body type, fitness is *a must*.) I could work with a Queen Latifah, sho nuff. She's damn pretty, besides, and down-to-earth, too. I see / interact with a woman almost everyday who reminds me of Latifah and she ... well... like I said... I could definitely work with big. I hafta watch myself around her! Woof, woof!!

  Of course, Halle would be the ideal. Just a lovely, lovely girl, wouldn't you say? So's Garcelle Beauvais (Jamie Foxx Show). And I wouldn't kick Vivica Fox out of bed for eating potato chips, either, even though she's moving toward thick. But, like I said, thick is... well... I could definitely work with some thick.

  You know who I'm feenin' for right about now? Kellita Smith (Bernie Mac Show). Yep, I could definitely work wit dat! (I know. I'm a dog.) Where was I.....

  Oh yeah...

  The point is, I don't care (AT ALL) for the media's constant offering of the supposedly feminine "ideal." You know: thin; no booty; fake, over-sized boobs. Can't work with that at all. I like my womenz au naturel, and preferably with some meat on 'em.

  I know...