Here we go again....let's start by bashing some people in the US and then turn it into a full bash US thread.
What Francois, Bendrr and Dakota pointed out is my belief.
My mother is a perfect example of what someone can do if they bust their ass.
She had a HS dipolma, had not worked in years and was suddenly divorced 27 years ago.
She got a secretarial job. She had ideas on how to improve her lot. She signed up for welfare, Aid to Families with Dependent Children, Medicaid and anything else. We used food stamps for about 1 year.
Then she signed up at the community college. She took courses in running a small business. She started her own interior design firm. She was and has been the only employee.
She is now painting faux finishes, restoring murals in churchs (still a faithful dub) and she learned AutoCad and does this full time. She is 64 and going strong. She has some money, paid off her home and just keeps working. She has never taken a vacation. Literally. Never.
We went to free clinics for medical care. When she could drive us. We went to Loyola University for virtually free dental care, done by dental students. Very good care I might add. Made for poor people.
She was an uneducated woman, was sexually harrassed at work, had no education, was a "subjection minded" JW and still tried.
The point to this? You have to try. You are responsible for you and your families financial status. Not the government. My husband and I pay approximately 35-40% of our income in taxes. We still give 3% to the United Way, $20.00 per week to the local Catholic church, sponsor 2 girls in Guatamala for the last 5 years ($40.00 per month) and volunteer.
What more do you want from someone like me? We are middleclass. We give and give and all you blather on about is why can't you get more.
Get an education, get a job, work hard, expect no favors and you might get some, expect some breaks and you will get none. In other words, do what my husband and I did....BUST YOUR ASS AND TRY.