Thanks Simon: I suspect that the person who emailed you is from the UK, judging from some of his/her expressions. If this is so it might explain some differences. In the USA the JWs are less free and more repressed.
The poster also said this, which I find suspecious:
... my kids are'nt yet witnesses but imgoing to wait until they get old enough to make that desicion for themselfs, after they leave school, we shall teach them christinas principles, but if they then choose to go there own way , so be it, i certainly wont shun my kids ...
No self-respecting JW would wait until their kids are out of school to teach them "Christian Principles" meaning JW propaganda.
Finally, the poster admits reading this site for hours, but finds posts to be destructive and sinister. Without specific examples, it is hard to know what he/she means by this. Nevertheless, I find it hard to believe that if one reads this site for hours, that he/she will come away thinking this ... there are too many good and rational arguments made for this to happen.