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by honestly 40 Replies latest watchtower child-abuse

  • needs_lots
    needs_lots

    I don't come on to post often as you will tell. I believe that "honestly" is my anut Karen.My fathers sister. The funny thing about that is, i went to her first when i was suffering the pains of abuse. Her advise was to keep this quiet, because my father was the most liked son of the family. And that if my grandmother would die if she knew what Gower had done to me. My husband scott has been a great support to me. When my mother died, the whole family blamed me for her death because i had exposed the family secret. Iam not a drama queen, in fact i have spent the last few years of my life quiet, and suffered alone. My father is the only one responible for his actions and Iam getting tired of being the one to blame. It has been proven in both a court of law and in letters sent to the society that my father did abuse me for 5 years. That is not in question here. She is lieing about the letters. and if there are any, where are they. I always cried to her about the pain i was suffering, and to see her write such mean things is cruel. But I would exspect nothing more of her or her family. I only wish that they would see that this is not a person vindetta against them. THis has only to do with me , my fahter, and the watchtower society.

  • needs_lots
    needs_lots

    I don't come on to post often as you will tell. I believe that "honestly" is myaunt karen.My fathers sister. The funny thing about that is, i went to her first when i was suffering the pains of abuse. Her advise was to keep this quiet, because my father was the most liked son of the family. And that if my grandmother would die if she knew what Gower had done to me. My husband scott has been a great support to me. When my mother died, the whole family blamed me for her death because i had exposed the family secret. Iam not a drama queen, in fact i have spent the last few years of my life quiet, and suffered alone. My father is the only one responible for his actions and Iam getting tired of being the one to blame. It has been proven in both a court of law and in letters sent to the society that my father did abuse me for 5 years. That is not in question here. She is lieing about the letters. and if there are any, where are they. I always cried to her about the pain i was suffering, and to see her write such mean things is cruel. But I would exspect nothing more of her or her family. I only wish that they would see that this is not a person vindetta against them. THis has only to do with me , my fahter, and the watchtower society.

  • Amazing
    Amazing

    Some attorneys representing the Society are most definitely JWs. Many are not, because the Society attorney's are normally licensed in either New York or Pennsylvania. When they get involved in litigation in other states they will try to use a JW attorney, but if non are found or are expert in the area they need, then they use non-JW attorneys. Much the same as when a JW uses non-JW lawyers, doctors, etc.

  • wasasister
    wasasister

    What is worse? The abuser, or those who excuse and cover for them?

    Both will pay a price ultimately.

  • UnDisfellowshipped
    UnDisfellowshipped

    "Honestly" said:

    I PERSONALLY WILL NEVER LOOK OR TALK TO HER AGAIN,SHE HAS BEEN DISOWNED MY HER REALTIVES,MOST ARE NOT EVEN WITNESSES SO WHAT DOES THAT TELL YOU.

    Ah, yes, doesn't the LOVE just knock you over.

    By Posting that, it just shows that you have the attitude of the Watchtower Society, a COLD and CRUEL attitude.

    I can tell you one thing, you sure know how to get people to NOT want to have anything to do with you.

    From that attitude, it is probably a BLESSING for her, that you have shunned her!

    Edited by - UnDisfellowshipped on 15 September 2002 0:47:57

  • WildHorses
    WildHorses

    I PERSONALLY WILL NEVER LOOK OR TALK TO HER AGAIN,SHE HAS BEEN DISOWNED MY HER REALTIVES,MOST ARE NOT EVEN WITNESSES SO WHAT DOES THAT TELL YOU.

    It tells me that leaving the JW religion was the right thing to do.

  • Xandria
    Xandria

    To Vicki:

    (((( HUGS ))) to you. As I said to you before, this was a vindictive thing for someone to do. I just figured by the choice of her words and the anger it was someone close in the family. I just wanted you to know not all Palmer(s) are like that and you have our support from this branch. My husband, worked for sometime with children and teens who came from abuse. Wither it be sexual or physical.

    At times, he would want to throw the parents through the wall. An many times, had to restrain himself from doing so or come away from a situation very fusterated. What balanced it all out, was the success of having a child come away from a abusive background in triumph. They were free from the abuse, they were going forward positively and dealing with the issues they had proactively.

    Like I said, I would not know what I would of done with out him.

    Sincerely,

    Xandria

    S.Palmer

  • Tinkerbell4125
    Tinkerbell4125

    Honestly, stop screming at us! We can read, we're not blind!

  • honestly
    honestly

    For the last time,I am not a JW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You people are so pathetically stupid.You dont have to be a witness to know whats bullshit and whats not.Unlike you know it alls,I personally know Vicky and have so all her life.She is lying thru her teeth.The only reason u cant see that is because you are all ex-Jws and have a closed mind.You only see what you want to see because you want nothing better than to see them pay for what they did to you personally.Even people who are not JWS have said that they can see right thru Vicky.The reason I have not gone to JWS lawyers?No need!They no where to find me if needed to testify what I know.

    To Xandria.......you are very blind if you cant see thru Vicky.And stop telling people you are a distant relative to the Palmers.And Im not screaming,just trying to knock some common sense into you all.

    Vicky,,,if u read this and Im sure you do......start telling the truth before its too late,you still have a chance to be honest.Think about it Victoria Elizabetha Boer......what happens if u lose and you will...is this all worth it?Think with your heart and your head and stop being a pawn in Frank Mottrilles game.

  • UnDisfellowshipped
    UnDisfellowshipped

    "Honestly" said:

    You people are so pathetically stupid

    Can't we all just get along?

    Well, we don't know you any more than we know Vicky, so why should we believe you over Vicky?

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