good male friend

Forcing a man to be "just a friend" while being emotionally involved (always crying on his shoulder over this or that) is equally opposite of rape in my opinion.

detective

Elsewhere,
I strongly encourage you to rethink your last statement.

You are essentially saying that engaging a male emotionally as a friend but not having intercourse with him in some way equates to violation. In other words, a male cannot participate in a relationship in which he wants to have sex with you, but you do not. If you are involved in that situation than you are somehow raping him as a result? Denying sex is most definitely NOT the same thing as forcing sex on someone against their will.

Nobody owes sex for friendship or emotional connection. Nobody.

I think you are just furthering that tired old belief that a man cannot control himself. And, that when he does control himself by not acting on his sexual desires, he deserves to be rewarded... with sex!!!

I suspect you are speaking from frustration, perhaps you've felt a bit "led on" in your life. But being led on, is NOT rape. Women get led on too. Perhaps you've even "led on" someone without really thinking about it yourself. Please think about what you are saying. You are comparing violent crime with a lack of compensatory sexual activity (apparently owed to all people who are nice to those they are attracted to).

Do you really want to start confusing disappointment with rape?

Rape is a violent crime. No sex...is no sex. Don't even go there, please!! I like reading your stuff... but you are WAAAAAAAAAY off here.

Elsewhere

Being emotionally raped is just as brutal as being physically raped... only the scars cannot be seen and fester in silence...

There are no laws to protect the victems of emotional rape.

detective

Please explain how someone choosing NOT to sleep with you is the equivalent of "emotional rape"?

good male friend

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