Shall I go to the meeting? Would you? (page 6)

Muddy Waters

I recently walked into a KH thinking I was going to a friend's memorial service, but we had gotten the date wrong -- I walked into the WT study, lol, and immediately left, but you couldn't tell the difference, I swear. The mood was so quiet, serious, somber and boring, it could have been a memorial service.

KateWild

OTWO, gma, umber, Giordano, JWDaughter, Diog, sparrowdown, CultBgone..........................Thanks for your posts and input, I appreciate it a lot.

Kate xx

KateWild

We went for a meal last night, and she asked me lots of spiritual questions then she said "I am worried you're rubbing off on me instead of me rubbing off on you"

So a little of what I am saying is getting through. We have established I am not going to meetings aswell.

Thanks guys.

I AM NOT GOING TO MEETINGS

But I might get weak again in the future

Kate xx

Joe Grundy

Dear Kate/Sam

I never was a JW, but I think I understand a lot about them/it.

You have a new life going for you, a bloke you're getting on well with, and a lot to look forward to.

My advice would be walk away and don't be tempted to turn around and look back. You don't want to end up as a pillar of salt, do you?

KateWild

Thanks Joe,

I understand what you say. Logic agrees emotions acts differently. It's the love bombing that draws me back everytime. They do love me, they are just trapped

Xanthippe

Kate you strike me as a friendly, positive and likeable person. They would warm to you wherever you go. My advice would be to join a group that deserves you and not one whose affection is conditional on your beliefs.

coalize

I AM NOT GOING TO MEETINGS

I'm happy you took the best decision :)

KateWild

Xant, thank you for your encouragement but I still feel a sense of loss and hatred towards the WT for separating me from my loved ones......these individuals can never be replaced. I just found out that one has liver cancer and I really want to be there for her to support her

Kate xx

Coalize-thanks for the post

Shall I go to the meeting? Would you?

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