grace4u,
I think DJ and Valis are right on. Not sure what you know at this point, but you're sucked into this world that tells you that you and you alone are right AND that everyone else is out to get you because they are tools of Satan (by 'out to get you' I mean in the "bad association" sense of the phrase). You're told that your true family are your fellow JW's. That your biological family, your old friends, they are not your true friends and family. So they have you cut off most, if not all ties, with those who are not JW's. Now that you are surrounded by your TRUE friends you certainly wouldn't want to sin in some way that cause you to be disfellowshipped and lose all of your real friends and family. Because who would you turn to for support, comfort, friendship? Your old friends? Your old family? I don't think so, at least that's what they hope for. They "don't want to punish" you, they want to shock you into the reality of your sin so that you'll want to repent and come back into fellowship with them following approval from the local body of elders.
You're told that once you're in the organization that that is when you are TRULY happy. That there is no real happiness outside the JW's. You hear it so much that you eventually believe it. OR, in my case you grow up being told that you cannot possibly be happy without this 'life'.
I'd say, Pork Chop, that's a bit of mind control that's incredibly effective. It worked for Hitler and Manson. OH! and for Hanibal Lechter too.
fluttergirl2
Edited by - fluttergirl2 on 12 October 2002 19:52:37