To Farkel... My Dad Died Today (page 3)

FreePeace

I want to thank all for your kind words.

An Update: My dad died in his sleep today at 2:30pm CST. It is a relief for him and the family.

There will apparently be a memorial service for him this Saturday. I don't know too much right now. I do know that I won't be attending. My brother will then take his ashes to his hometown of Blackfoot, Idaho, to be buried along with his parents.

It's rather funny... I know my JW sister and other family members will be crying their hearts out. But me, I'm not. You would think that they would be relieved--although saddened--knowing that he is "as good as in the New World" and I would be the one overcome with grief. Funny how the Witnesses grieve even with their wonderful hope.

I have a peace about me knowing that he is in a better place now... whether that is a state of non-existence or some kind of after-life I'll have to let you know. But don't hold your breath, it'll be awhile.

Doug

Edited by - FreePeace on 29 October 2002 20:6:40

FreePeace

bttt... Want to make sure Fark sees this...

nilfun

I'm so sorry to hear this...please accept my condolences....

((((FreePeace))))

El Kabong

I'm very sorry for your loss. I lost my Dad a couple of years ago after a long illness. I understand the pain you are feeling. Even though you know it's coming, you can never be totally prepared for it when it does happen.

It's nice to know that there are so many supportive people on this board. May Peace be with you.

DannyBear

Doug,

I don't why, but these words word's just struck my heart strings:

***As I was leaving, I knew it would be the last time I would see him. He said, "Behave yourself." I said, "You too," and I walked out of his hospital room.***

A father to the end. And an adult son, who could offer the same advice. That must have just made your heart sing Doug. Almost like your dad, understood perfectly that you were in fact 'behaving yourself' very well thankyou!

I guess that is why even courts of law, give added credence to death-bed testimony. There was no reason for him to express anything less than what was truly in his heart of heart's. Bless the man, for doing that for you.

After reading Farkel's comments about your dad, it is very easy for me to see why he was again, 'very proud of you'. If my son, was a publishe author, and his writings were designed to make people's lives better, to enrich them in spirit........I would be proud as well.

Of course Iam sorry for your loss. But in its own way, this (and very few among us can claim so) was in fact a happy ending.

All the best wishes to you and your lovely wife Tracy.

Danny

WildHorses

I'm sorry to hear about your dad. (((((((((((((((((((((Hugs to you both)))))))))))))))))))

Mulan

As Miguel Ferrer said, when his mother, Rosemary Clooney died "Now he/she knows the big secret."

I am so sorry for your loss. I didn't go to the memorial for my stepfather a year ago. I could not go into a KH ever again...........can't imagine it. Hearing their propaganda and the foolishness, they call a funeral service, was too much for me to anticipate. I understand your not going. Have your own quiet time and think about him your own way.

jurs

I'm sorry to hear about your loss.

Hugs to you

jurs

Salud

Dear Doug and Tracy,

Frank & I are so sorry to hear about the loss of your father. We have both experienced this pain, and our thoughts and prayers are with you now.

You are so right Doug, he is in a better place. You feel a peace and strength that no JW can ever feel, as they only have the comfort of a lie, which turns out to be of no comfort at all. One day you will be reunited again with him, and then he will let you know that he understood everything you said......we are all looking forward to that day!

Hugs, Love and Prayers,

Karen & Frank

Billygoat

((((((((((((((((Doug, Tracy, and family)))))))))))))))))))

You are in my thoughts and prayers. You can email me at anytime for anything. I hope to have the same reconciliation with my father someday...no matter what the situation.

Love,

Andi

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