Im beginning to think that you arent a very good person to confide in.'
No, I'm not, if you are going to lie and expect me to go along with it. Which is what XW did. When I advised her that she may get caught and it might backfire, did she worry? No. She said, "people know me and like me, they don't know Richard."
Now, you can try to confuse the issue all you want to, Heaven, but the truth is, and I know this hurts, your "friend" lied. And she did it purposefully in order to injure another poster on this board. If you want that sort of person as a friend, you are welcome to it. But don't whine when you get burned by her too.
Robyn