Just calm down, Outlaw. It's a joke. Wives of elders are called elderettes because too many meddle in congregation business. Minimus said that eldress was more accurate in my case because I never meddled. There are many women behind the men at the KH who write their talks, organize their service bag, keep their husbands up on the juicy KH gossip that may lead to a JC, who decide who will be socially acceptable and who will not, etc.
They pull the strings of the marionettes they call their husbands.
Blondie (But I do remember Deborah and Huldah)