HELP!! SHE IS TRYING TO GET TO MY SON!!!!!!!!!!!!! (page 3)

orangefatcat

Hey Jesika baby doll, stop getting crazy and take the bull by the horns. This women is a nut. If the x husband stamds behind you you have nothing to lose. Let her try her little number. Let her throw her temper tantrum. You stay cool. This boob wants you to explode, she is counting on it. Let her take you to court, she'll make a jerk of herself in the court. The Judge will see through her. And if you don't have counsel you can get free counsel at the court. At least in Canada. Legal aid. When you tell them you have no funds to pay for counsel. Don't worry Jesika everything will work out.

She won't get your son, she has no legal claim to him. Tell her to go ahead and we'll be happy to see you in court and get this settled once and for all. Maybe the bitch will back off. And if she doesn't well be strong and I wish I could be there for you, but my powerful thoughts are there with you okay.

Love you Jesika.

Terry,

ugg

i would kill for my child....i just can immagine the agony you are in...oh god...((((((((((( jesika))))))))))

caligirl

((((((((Jesika))))))))

I am so sorry you are going through this. Please feel free to email me - I see that my husband already offered the same. We have been through the wringer with his ex this past year regarding the whole visitation issue and understand the emotions involved.

The fact that you and your ex made the decision jointly goes a long way in demonstrating that your son's welfare comes first to both of you, and the fact that your ex feels that way about his son having contact with his mother speaks volumes. Love for a grandchild is not shown by trying to undermine the parent-child relationship. Not to say that she does not love her grandson to whatever extent she is capable, but it sounds like you and your ex tried to find a workable solution before finally saying that you would not allow contact. It is a parents right to decide who their child associates with, and obviously you and your ex feel that she is detrimental to your son. Your past is not really relevant in whether or not she should be allowed visitation, but her past behavior is certainly relevant and is the root cause of cutting off contact in the first place.

Edited by - caligirl on 7 January 2003 21:0:33

Jesika

Prisca----------Ok, let me INFORM YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have been OFF DRUGS for a LONG TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

His grandmother has only SELFISH reasons at hand!! I know this and everyone in my family I talk to (who will talk to me) knows this.

I didn't put this thread out here to hear your BULLS*IT!!!!!!!!!!!

I don't care what RELIGION she is, only what she is feeding my son. Whether or not she is telling him the "truth" about my past, what right is it of hers to tell my son at the age of 6????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The fact that I was taking care of him the best way I knew how?????????????????????

Have you BEEN ON THE STREETS????????????? It is a HARD LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yes she cares about my son, god bless her, but why defame your parents in the process????????????????? When he is too young to understand what and why people do things they have to do, why have him judge his parents when they are taking care of him.

When I was molested by my uncle-------did I love him, did he care about me? probably, was it heathly? NO!!!!!!!!!!!

Will I allow my son to be abused in ANY WAY??????????????? NOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!

Why don't you take a good look at what the hell you are saying and leave a subject you know NOTHING ABOUT ALONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

William Penwell

Jes,

I am so sorry to hear about what your ex mother in law is doing. I am not sure about how much visitation rights grandparents have where you are. One thing that someone mentioned earlier is about documenting everything. Start a diary and any conversations document them, the date, time, place, etc. Paraphrase as best you can what she says to you. It may be too late for this upcoming trial but in case you need it for future reference. A person like that you can't trust I would make sure everything is documented.

All the best,

Your Friend

Will

Prisca

Settle down girl. My life hasn't been a bed of roses either, you know.

I'm glad that you have been off the drugs for a good while now. But I think you are failing to see things from her point of view. I agree, it's wrong for her to be telling your son things that should be explained later to him, but perhaps he's seen things that he only feels comfortable talking to her about?

I know you're probably not going to bother reading this, but if you put things up on a public discussion board, then you should be prepared to hear a variety of comments, particularly those that are looking at things objectively, and are not replying purely out of emotion.

kelpie

Hi Jes (((jes)))

In Australia they have something called legal aid which is available to the unemployed. Maybe you have something similar that you can use there???

Maybe there is some agreement that you can all come to. I know I have considered getting visitation rights of my niece.

Kelps

Jesika

Prisca---------I am not trying to get sympathy from you. I honestly don't think you totally understand what I am talking about.

I accept what you are saying, but I am not a liberty to comment cause I am too upset. I may have to go back to the thing I hate.

I am crying now and have to excuse myself from this thread for a while.

Goodbye for now.

Jesika

cruzanheart

Hey Jes, Chris here. Still waiting for my posting limits to reset ().

First, grandparents do not have visitation rights. I've followed this mainly because of my dad. Right now she is trying to scare you and bully you. Don't buy into it. Take this one step at a time. You're going to be all right.

Call me if you need to talk.

Chris

moreisbetter

Dear Jesika,

So very sad to hear about this awful thing. Its very understandable that you're shaking!. You're very wise to have taken immediate action by seeking information. You have received some good resources & sure more are to come. This will turn out ok. For a son to deny his mother visitation to her grandson is pretty powerful testimony that she would be harmful. My thoughts are with you. you have a lot of friends here for support. Me included. You have my phone # & email; call anytime. Theresa

HELP!! SHE IS TRYING TO GET TO MY SON!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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