Camay,
I was one of JW's for almost forty years. I feel for the tough spot you are in.
The only advice I can give is pretty much what has already been said. (with the exception of Humble) Personally, I see nothing wrong with living with someone in a caring comitted relationship.
But it does sound like your boyfriend has some very serious issues. Which you seem to be well aware of.
You're are correct in your conclusions from the research you have done!! Don't let any circumstance or coaxing from your boyfriend sway you from your common sense.
I would like to be able to say, support him as a friend. But, according to the JW teachings, now that he has confessed, that won't even be possible. Because if he decides to live by their rules he will have to cut off any association with you. (sexual or otherwise)
You may want to resolve yourself to this being a learning experience and try to move on.
TW
JW Boyfriend is being brainwashed !
by Camay 23 Replies latest jw friends
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thinkers wife
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trevor
Camay,
If I were you I would carry on fornicating - it's a lot more fun.
You have a whole lifetime to repent and in time you may come to
believe that living with someone you love is not a sin but a perfectly
natural thing to do. You both claim to base your beliefs on the Bible
yet you have both come to entirely different conclusions. Who's to
say you won't find there is a third truth that you have yet to discover?'I was an oak, now I'm a willow I can bend.'
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Camay
Update: smoking pot fornacation leads to sleepsless nites on sofa
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JT
camery says:
I am just going to find someone else period. I dont have time for
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you have given yourself the best advice - now get it done quicklysmile
james