Lloyd, it doesn't have to be like this. There is still time for you to turn the ship around
That was a very sweet post. Thing about it is if Lloyd read it, he’d read right past all that and only read into perceived insults. He’s incapable of reading the compassion in your post. His minds works in a very peculiar way and it’s always separating people into supporters or detractors.
A fine example of that is on this forum more than a decade ago with nicolaou. Nic responded to an unsolicited PM from Lloyd publicly which had to do with a particular thread they were in disagreement about. You should have seen his reaction. It was like Nic was caught bludgeoning baby seals or killing cats. Lloyd never forgot it, even years later he still brought it up like it was an unforgivable crime.
His letters to his wife reveal a very sick and twisted man. She was opening up to him and getting into how she felt in that marriage, especially considering the recent infidelities and he threw the kitchen sink at her.
He couldn’t get past the fact that she criticised him. And this is the woman who bore him two children and ran the house while he was off in another world scrolling for exJW news.
He’s probably pretty sore at Tibor right now about bailing on him. He’s the perpetual victim and it is going to take an even bigger fall and complete breakdown for him to even get the message that he is hopelessly sick and needs help.