Arguably this whole thing blew up because LE had zero sympathy for somebody who had expressed suicidal thoughts in response to his videos.
It was his “I’m Taking a Break” video along his cryptic social media posts which hinted at his breakdown that contributed to Adam (Fade to Ex) attempting suicide. Not putting that all on Lloyd - Adam was already clinically depressed and shunned. But in true Lloyd fashion, he was the one who brought up that WhatsApp exchange with Kim on the livestream and quoted her as telling him if he couldn’t be more circumspect about what he tweets, he needed “to get the fuck off social media”. Of course Lloyd thought that made him look like the wronged party when in fact Kim was dead-on in telling him that considering Adam’s suicide attempt.
It sounds like he wasn't above using his wife's trauma over her brother's suicide to maintain control over her.
Her brother didn’t commit suicide. Jabba the Hutt did hint at his death though in his abusive letter when going over how paranoid she was and listing the reasons. Something about electricity and how he understood why she was paranoid. My guess is he was electrocuted.
The very fact that he sought to use her brother’s death in illustrating how paranoid she was in a letter that brutally gaslighted her is vintage Lloyd. And the reason why she was paranoid? Dijana had the absolute gall to worry about her contracting STDs from him! His genitals were perfectly fine, Lloyd assured her. Never a thought for how she might be feeling - he just had to start picking up hookers and dates in the family car and that bitch wasn’t letting him.
For those still inclined to think Lloyd was suicidal during that time period - read BOTH those letters - before he went to Thailand and then the very day after she informed him she wanted a divorce. That was a man obsessed with getting what he wanted - instant sexual gratification with sex workers and his insistence upon an open marriage arrangement where he actually thought it was a compromise to come off dating apps but still visit prostitutes.
Imagine that - after his wife of 15 years tells him she wanted a DIVORCE because he was unfaithful to her with prostitutes, his solution was to promise to come off dating apps (trust him!) and to still see sex workers. It’s like a hopeless drug addict in an effort to save his marriage saying he’ll quit cannabis and drinking, just as long as he gets his regular fix of crystal meth.