Fisherman would have us believe that Norwegian JWs are being penalised by the government because individual members just want the right to shun their children and others. Is that really the case though? Or are individual JW members pressured to shun by the organisation...
The Watchtower, March 2018, page 31:
Consider the example of a mother whose disfellowshipped daughter left home. The mother admits: “I looked for loopholes in our publications so that I could spend time with my daughter and my granddaughter.” She adds: “But my husband kindly helped me to see that our child was now out of our hands and that we must not interfere.”
The Watchtower, 15 January 2013, page 16:
Do not look for excuses to associate with a disfellowshipped family member, for example, through e-mail.
The Watchtower, 15 January 2007, page 20:
While caring for necessary family matters may require some contact with the disfellowshipped person, a Christian parent should strive to avoid needless association.
When an erring child is disciplined by Christian shepherds, it would be unwise if you were to reject or minimize their Bible-based action. Siding with your rebellious child would not be providing any real protection from the Devil. Actually, you would be endangering your own spiritual health.
The Watchtower, 1 October 2001, page 17:
If a baptized youth is disfellowshipped, the congregation members are expected “to quit mixing in company with” him.
And of course there are also the shameless videos depicting JW members resisting the temptation to act like humans toward their shunned family members.