I've been out for so long that many jws now fall into 3 groups
Those who can't remember if I was df'd or just inactive and shun me
Those who can't remember if I was df'd or just inactive and err on the side of being friendly
Those who don't remember if I was df'd or just inactive but feel I should be df'd and shun me
and I forget those who were shunning me when I was still an active jw and keep doing so.