HOSER:
Also: In my case, years ago there was nobody in the congregation at the time with a business who suggested to me that I work for them. I want to stress again that this near-poverty lifestyle was being pushed on younger people there.
I would have been expected to do cleaning on my own. Just to show you how I seriously tried to see if this could work for me: I once cleaned a house with an older sister.. Well, after how long it took and all the physical labor, I said forget it. (ALSO, this Witness woman was MARRIED with a husband paying major bills and she did a cleaning job for extra money! To be perfectly clear, she was not doing this to support herself!)
After careful consideration, I realized I would have to be OUT of my mind to quit a good job (with benefits) to do this.. I had the confidence (maybe because of my non-Witness upbringing) to not care what critical or jealous people with issues about women thought about me.. I also was not swayed by a desire to be ‘liked’ or invited to special dinners like some other young people there. (What a mistake on their part and this isn’t paying for their retirement today!)
Most of the older JW busybodies went to their graves after living a cushy life.. Good thing I never listened to these sons-of-bitches because where the hell would I be today?? I never lost sight of the fact I had to look out for myself and I am grateful today that I did!!