Lostwun, that's why I love the internet. None of us are alone any more.
I see it as a catch-22:
I believe for my wife to ever wake up she would need to become a hardcore dub who is 1000% involved with the witnesses - and then maybe something would happen that would affect her enough that she would be willing to research. But, living with a hardcore zealous dub would drive me and the kids insane.
But, as she is now she'll probably never wake up since she's living a fairly "normal" life. She doesn't have much to wake up from.
Every once in awhile someone in the KH will try to get my wife more active by calling, texting, taking her in service or meeting for lunch and stuff. It works for awhile but eventually the zealous dub gets tired out by my wife's refusal for self motivation. Every time this happens I worry that she'll become a super dub - that's when I realized that I prefer her the way she is now, which probably means no chance of waking her up.
