cofty those are valid points but people needn't feel that they have to stop talking about those issues. They still can and the way they express themselves on those issues will show that they are not expressing islamophobia but are expressing criticism of particular issues.
I don't think Islamophobia will be regulated as homophobia is and I don't think we need be afraid that it will. It may become as regulated as anti-semitism is though but that will only happen if muslims are hunted down with violence and intimidation, if they are refused jobs based on their culture and things like these.