Something else I want to clear up:
This sister was clean, wore tasteful makeup, and a decent hairstyle. She was no slob. Her dress was clean and neat but it was an unflattering style with an elasticised waist. The large floral print was dated and made her look older than I think she is. That's why I called it frumpy.
There was no reason for her to receive counsel from the elders. All she needs is a Makeover from ME. LOLOL