I am so hurt. JW friend has disowned me :-(

by Hamas 63 Replies latest jw friends

  • Hamas
    Hamas

    Thanks guys.

    I come to realise that you are my real friends.

  • Frannie Banannie
    Frannie Banannie

    (((HAMAS)))...sorry to hear you're goin' thru that, guy! But, as you can plainly see, there's lotsa "Huckleberries" here for ya!

    Frannie B (from the "I'll be your Huckleberry" class)

  • Hamas
    Hamas

    please Frannie

  • freein89
    freein89

    Hamas, my heart goes out to you, losing friends is so very painful, I lost mine along time ago. When I had my fourth child ( and last) my husband was out of town and my best friend went through my long labor with me and was there for my daughters delivery, I let her choose Alicia's middle name to thank her (it was a really long labor). When I da'd she quit me just like all the rest. I cried oceans and buckets of tears. It hurts so very much to lose a good friend. The love for a friend goes deep and is not easily lost, but the pain will subside, I promise you that, but it does take awhile. I'm so glad you could talk to us about it, and I am honored to be counted among the people that care about you and would never betray you. A hug for you.

    Deb

  • anglise
    anglise

    Hi Hamas

    so sorry to hear about your friend.

    We know why he is doing it but he doesnt understand you at the moment.

    He might not talk to you ATM but he will be thinking of you.

    Hopefully you might be in a position to welcome him back as your true friend one day if he can escape from the emotional shackles of the borg.

    In the meantime you can always come here and vent.

    Take care.

    Anglise

  • Surreptitious
    Surreptitious

    All right Hamas! That does it! I'm with ya man. Let's you and me go put fajitas on their heads!

  • Odrade
    Odrade

    Hamas, I shunned my best friend. Not quite like yours did. She never came around after she was df'd. But I didn't go looking for her either. Later, I wised up, but it took me years to find her again. When I did, I told her how sorry I was for shunning her.

    She said, "It's okay, I understand why you did it."

    Hamas, nothing ever felt as good as knowing she doesn't blame me for being a WT idiot. If your friend ever wakes up and comes to you, try to do like she did. We are as close as we ever were.

    Odrade

  • berylblue
    berylblue

    Hamas,

    I know no one can replace such a good friend, but you know I think the world of you and have much affection for you. Please write. [email protected]

    You are very, very dear to me. Please PLEASE know that.

  • talesin
    talesin

    {{{{{hamas}}}}}

    I wish I could cross the water to give you a big hug, but this will have to do.

    I, too, lost my best friend as she is too afraid to associate with me, even though she is leading a double life as a witness.

    The pain is fresh for you and I can't offer hope that it will end, but it will dull in time.

    xo

    tal

  • badolputtytat
    badolputtytat

    Just a nobody here... but for what it is worth, I am sorry that you have lost a friend to this thing, I am sorry that this org. has the ability to make this happen to you or anyone.

    puttytat

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