Hey, girl... peace to you! First, please... PLEASE... don't take my caps as "shouting". They are for emphasis... purely. Okay, now...
I guess I am confused: I mean, I did include the words "GROWN", but your example uses children. And I don't think that's the same thing because I think the GROWN son in my example COULD... and SHOULD have been held responsible. Because if he COULDN'T and SHOULDN'T... then we CAN'T and SHOULDN'T go around holding teachers, caregivers, or anyone else we GIVE responsibility for our children to... whom we have ENTRUSTED with such responsibility... when something goes wrong while in their care. In the scenario... the son's responsibility didn't USURP the father's... it simply AUGMENTED it... for a period of time.
So, I ask you... if YOU leave your child with a caregiver... or teacher... and some harm comes to YOUR child... is that teacher or caregiver released from responsibility? Should you not expect that teacher/caregiver to exercise the some level of caution... hopefully, the same that YOU would exercise... with those entrusted to their care? Or are YOU to blame, even though you weren't there? Because by means of what you are saying, he or she is actually absolved of ANY responsibility, because only YOU were responsible! And what of the person who CAUSED the harm... are they, too, NOT responsible because only YOU can be?
I ask you: can't GROWN people be put in positions of responsibility... ACCEPT that responsibility... and be held ACCOUNTABLE for the outcome... whether good (and so rewarded)... OR bad (and so reproved)? Or are we all just without ANY responsibility or accountability? If so, why don't we all just do whatever the heck we want to do... REGARDLESS of how it affects anyone else... and let the final accountability lay with God? Because THAT... is what you and many others here are suggesting. And THAT... is EXACTLY what is going on: many... MANY... are doing just whatever the HECK they want... regardless of how it affects others... even children.
Regarding subjection, it is true that the animals were put "in subjection" - I ask you... up until maybe the last 50 years - how did we "care" for them, for the most part? And if we WERE to care for animals, who were subjected to us... how then should we care for HUMANS... who are EQUAL to us? But DO we care for our fellow humans?
In addition, please hear and know this TRUTH, dear "daughter": contrary to POPULAR belief... it is NOT only your responsibility, as a mother, to care for your children. True, it is PRIMARILY your responsibility... and your husband's. But the responsibility lies... on us ALL!
I find it "funny"... as in peculiar... that even the most primitive peoples understood this concept, while those of the more... ummmm... "civilized" groups tended to throw this right out the door. Why did the former know it and not the latter? Because for the FORMER... it was not some "law" written down on stone or paper... but in their HEARTS. They KNEW it... perhaps from having it passed down orally from generation to generation, but regardless, in their HEARTS... they knew the TRUTH of it: the people of the group... particularly the children... are the responsibility of the entire group. If something happened to ONE in the group... it happened to ALL. If ONE met with good fortune... they ALL met with good fortune. If one met with harm... they ALL felt that harm!
The latter, however, those who consider themselves to be "civilized"... need such a truth to be WRITTEN. And even then... they fail to heed it. Why? Because of the BOUNDARIES "we" have established, the "me/mine" syndrome, which syndrome violates God's laws! "MY country... MY state... MY neighborhood... MY house... MY child." So, that... others are precluded from helping... from even TAKING any responsibility:
Have you not seen the "bad" kid in the neighborhood, whose needs a good "what for" for bullying the other children? (And I might add, here, that CONTRARY to what you see on television, such "bullies" are NOT always overweight and chubby - there's a PLETHORA of skinny "good-looking" kids who are just plain MEAN!)
But what happens when you tell the child to behave? "You ain't my mama!" And when you try to tell the parent? "MY Johnny wouldn't do what you said. You're lying on MY Johnny. You need to mind your own business and worry about your OWN kids. Don't tell MY child what to do!"
You all know it's true. You have either seen it... been a victim of it... or had someone try to tell you something about yourself or your child that you weren't even trying to hear. THAT... is also the TRUTH.
Which leads to the "your" syndrome... as in "the responsibility is not MINE... but YOURS." And we have now taken that "syndrome"... all the way to God: it is not MY responsibility, God... but YOUR's.
But, Lisa, let me ask you: If I see you... and/or YOUR child... naked, hungry, without shelter or what have you... what "good" do I do you if I say, "Hey, girl, hope things get better. I will pray to God to send ya'll some food. In the meantime, stay warm!" but never offer you the means to obtain some food and warmth? Okay, so I said some "good" words - BIG whoop! But in TRUTH, am I concerned with YOU? Or am I saying to MYself, "Hope things get better with Sistah-Girl, but I got ME and MINE to care for - she ain't MY problem!"
What if, on the other hand, I gave you a meal AND my coat? THEN... I would have DEMONSTRATED what I SAID I wished. I... took responsibility. And where does God fit into this? It is just as my Lord and others have said: GOD... then will REPAY... ME. I give to YOU... HE... gives BACK... to ME. I promise you... this is TRUE. And just as He repays when one does GOOD... He will repay those who do bad.
Matthew 6:4, 18; Romans 12:19; 2 Thessalonians 1:6; 2 Timothy 4:14
THANKFULLY... the repayment for GOOD is speedily, while the repayment for BAD... is yet to come. Why do I say "thankfully"? Because, IMPERFECT human that I am... I want to be paid for my GOOD right away; however, for that which I have done "bad"... there has been time for me to turn around and receive mercy. Had such repayment also come speedily, perhaps I might not be here... getting to know you and others... whom I have come to love VERY much.
For unlike US... who would see OUR "justice" meted out quickly... and in many cases HASTILY (I give you the lynchings of the past century)... GOD... is merciful... gracious... and SLOW... to anger. Praise, JAH!
Exodus 34:6, 7
Back to rape...
Since it is the CHARGE of ALL of us to look after one another... how then can we blame God when a certain MAN... (or woman)... VIOLATES that charge and harms another? Is it not that MAN... (or woman)... who is responsible and NOT God? And what of those who stand by or attempt to make excuse for such ones... friends... family...
I give you the young man in Las Vegas, whose friend raped and murdered the 10 year old little black girl. He KNEW what was taking place? Did he stop his friend? Nope. Did he go get help for her? Nope. Was he CONVICTED? Nope. Why? Because, apparently... he did... nothing. By nothing, I mean, he didn't rape and kill her. MAN'S laws, then, says... he has no accountability. Yet, he ALSO did "nothing" to stop his "friend" or to help the little girl! Were we appalled? Some of us, yes? And what did WE do? Nothing. But what does GOD's law say? Did "we" carry out GOD's law? Nope. But... we have NO problem BLAMING God. How does that WORK exactly? Aren't WE to blame for not carrying out the law?
Okay, someone will say, "Well, I thought we were supposed to forgive." But this was NOT a case of forgiveness - it was a case of "It wasn't me or MY child that got hurt... and it wasn't ME or my son who raped and killed her... and it wasn't ME or my son who stood by and let it occur. Therefore, it really ain't none of MY business. Let GOD handle it."
THEN... we turn around and say, "Oh, LOOK! GOD... didn't "handle" it! HE's to blame!"
Now... "we"... "handled" it in OUR way... which was to do NOTHING. Yet, we now wish to blame GOD... whom "we" assume also did nothing. Is that not HYPOCRISY?
I tell you, dear Lisa, it is like the hypocritical Pharisees: WE... want someone ELSE... GOD... to do things that we CAN do... but don't... because the responsibility... the "load"... is too HEAVY for us! So, rather than carry the SAME "load" we put on another, God... "we"... wish to put the entire "load"... the RESPONSIBILITY... on HIM. Like the Pharisees... put it on the PEOPLE... when it was in THEIR power... to do!
Now, there are those who will say, "But what about God holding US responsible when HE does NOTHING? Isn't that the same thing?"
And I would have to say, no, it is not. First, while my Father may not have yet acted... do NOT assume that He will NOT act ever. He will. In the meantime, God is not down here saying, "LISA! Why didn't YOU do something about that incident?! Why didn't YOU stop it?!"
And why is that? Because (1) God is merciful; HE... knows OUR... limitations. HE... knows that MANY of us WOULD do something... IF WE COULD. He also knows that there are many who hearts are "removed" from Him... and who are "more numerous" than us... and there is strength in numbers. Most of us are NOT like David: we would NOT stand up before an army and slay a "giant" all on our own with nothing but a slingshot and some rocks.
But does HE... hold this against US? No, He does not. No more than He held it against Israel that only David stood up. Thus, while "we"... AS A GROUP... are "guilty" of crimes against one another... "we"... INDIVIDUALLY... we can approach through Christ and let Him know that "WE"... ARE 'sighing and groaning' over the 'detestable' things that go on... just as HE is. We can also let Him know that WE... carry in US... the SAME 'mercy' as He... that WE... do not wish ANY to die... but ALL to "get it"... to repent of wickedness and be saved... from ourselves as well as the "enslavement" into which we were sold.
So that the time He is taking... while it does seem long... is truly merciful. Why? Because... IF He were to act... speedily... hastily... NOW... some of US... as well as those we LOVE... might have to go. We don't know who is here among us that we CALL 'friend'... who has committed such acts. We do not know who among those we love, those we may call "family"... who may have committed such acts. And EVERY time it is someone close to US... we can come up with all KINDS of excuses: "please, God, he/she didn't MEAN it. If you only knew what he/she went through as a child themselves. Please, God... HAVE MERCY."
And... we do not know who among those we do NOT call friend or family... who we do NOT love, by virtue of having something "against" them... so that in TRUTH... we might be quite PLEASED if they were to go... are actually very GOOD people. WE... see what is on the OUTSIDE; God... sees... what is one the INSIDE. And NONE of us know... the 'spirit' of a man, except with regard to ourselves only. And many of us don't even know that.
So, I ask YOU, dear Lisa... and every one of you here, as I have asked before:
What would YOU... have God DO... and at what POINT? Would you have him wipe people out BEFORE they commit an evil act... in anticipation of such act? And, if so, would that not be killing an INNOCENT person, because one has not yet committed the crime? I give you Cain: God KNEW Cain was going to kill Abel - He WARNED Cain. Should He have foregone the warning and just killed Cain instead?
Or would you have had Him wipe him out DURING the crime, which seems "logical" to me? But then, I would ask you: WHICH crimes would YOU deem worthy of Him doing this? Murder? Rape? Incest? Theft? Adultery? Anything that causes another "pain"? How much pain would it have to cause? What if YOU feel something is not as "bad" as another feels it it?
God is damned, dear ones... by mankind... if He DOES... and damned again... by mankind... if He DOESN'T.
God TRIED to show His TRUE self... when He wiped out wickedness once before, with a flood, when He delivered Israel from brutal slavery in Egypt, when He killed their enemies who were persecuting them... and yet, they turned on Him. Were they grateful? For a minute or so... and then they would turn on Him again.
He also TRIED to show His TRUE self... that He is SLOW to anger, MERCIFUL and ABUNDANT in loving kindness... when He sent His Son... the EXACT REPRESENTATION of His Being... to show mankind how HE was... and how they should be with one another... because they CERTAINLY weren't "getting it"... which Son... mankind... killed.
Lisa, tell me honestly... at what point would YOU sit back and say, "Okay, kids... you're on your own. Because when I DO help you... you turn on me... and when I DON'T... you blame me for what YOU do... to one another." At what point would YOU say, "I will help those of my children who come to ME... but those who wish to be on their own... okay... you're on... your... own?"
I am sorry, dear ones... but I do not profess to be as "all-knowing" as God; thus, I can only ASK... and share with you what I "hear". But know this, for it is a GREAT truth:
Although "we" may think "we" have HIM "on trial"... in TRUTH, it is "we" who are on trial. For the accusation was made... against US. And you may THINK it does not include you, but I promise you... it does.
Revelations 12:10; Job 2:4; Micah 6:2; Psalm 43:1
Now, I long ago realized that I cannot answer to the "why's and wherefor's" of what man does... to man. In TRUTH, it makes NO sense to me; there is NO rhyme... or reason... for what we do to one another. But with regard the "why's and wherefor's" of God, His actions and inactions... I can ask... and receive reply... which I do and have... and which I almost always share with you. Ultimately, however, itis for HIM to answer, and although He is NOT, in truth, on trial... He will.
For those with ears to hear... the reply is available... now.
Psalm 4:4; Job 33:13-16; John 14:6; Matthew 17:5
As always, dear Lisa, I bid you the greatest of love and peace... to you and your entire household.
Your servant, "mom"... and a slave of Christ... all to time indefinite...
SJ