((((((Robyn & Mary))))))
For the life of me, I do not understand how anybody could sacrifice their own child for an organization
They don't, not in their own minds at least. I was in the unfortunate position of nearly losing my only son under similar circumstances. At the age of 18 months his bowel collapsed and he needed a major operation to remove part of it and his appendix. Blood transfusion was a possibility but I signed a form of some kind to say that I would not permit a blood transfusion for him.
What went through my mind, over and over again, was the simple statement 'abstain from blood' - it was a command from God Himself and who was I to reject that?
Of course, I now know the issue is far more complex than that. The trouble is most JWs are ill-informed, yet believe themselves to be well-informed, a very dangerous state of mind to exist in.
My son pulled through. Even so, and even as a JW, my feelings as a parent were still there and I would have been devastated had he died (even believing he was guaranteed a resurrection). It was simply the worst night of my life waiting in the ward. Any JW who sacrifices their children to the blood issue will feel overwhelming grief, just imagine how they would feel if they found it was all in vain.