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One thing I learned from my experiences with the Witnesses, is to not sit in judgment on others. I had enough of that from them, and I hated it. So what kind of hypocrite would I be if I did that to others now? No, it would mean that I had learned nothing and all that pain and heartache was wasted.
See, I'm a big believer in free will. I believe our lives are the sum total of our choices. And nowhere is that more clear than the issue of spirituality. No one on this planet can say for an absolute certainty they know the mind of God, or even that he exists. Spirituality is, at least in my mind, the ultimate choice. Either you believe, or you don't. Either way, it's a choice. We decide for ourselves. And I guess that is one ancillary point I was trying to make with that quote earlier in this thread. What do we do if we see wrong? Do we stand by and watch it happen? Do we object? Either way, it's a choice and that choice begins to define who we are and what we're about in this life.
I see you on a journey just like the rest of us. Forgive me, but I suspect your sometimes combative nature hides (protects?) something fragile underneath. It's an effective defense; I know because I used it myself for many years. But it also isolates and makes it difficult for those who want to help to come near. You didn't ask for it, but I will offer this advice: wherever you go and whatever you become in this life, keep an open mind and an open heart. In that way you are in a better position to receive what God has to give you.
Be well.