Let me start out by saying that I would like nothing better than to see the Society totally disappear one day and lose it’s controlling grip upon it’s members. This forum is probably one of the most frequented sites for doubting JWs and “lurkers” so I think it is important to be as skilled at combating the Witnesses as is possible. Not every argument made against someone or something is a good one. This is especially true in dealing with this religion.
I don’t claim to be a master of logic nor am I flawless in my argumentation. But, I do think that there are some flaws that are frequently made on this discussion board and I would like to point these out. Hopefully, by initiating this type of discussion we can all become better adept at both helping others out of the Society and in reflecting on our own experiences as Witnesses. So, here we go…
1) Overgeneralizing individual Witnesses (or bodies of elders) behavior/thinking to be a symptom of the entire organization. I see this fallacy time and time again. Often it takes the form of an extremely emotional and bitter experience that is presumed to be damning proof that the Society is wicked, evil and is hopelessly corrupt. This is fallacious because it makes the sweeping assumption that the negative behavior is supported or condoned by the Society when, in fact, it might not be at all. For example:
“A witness that I used to work for was caught cheating on his taxes. See the JW’s are liars”
“My parents didn’t allow us to watch television because they said it is demonized. Aren’t the JWs nutty?!”
“The elders on my judicial committee were so cold and uncaring with me. What an unloving organization!”
“The Presiding Overseers wife used to say that blood is an ingredient in M&Ms. Witness beliefs are crazy!”
None of these examples are very good arguments against the Society as a whole. In fact, many of the bad experiences people have with JWs are caused by actions that the Society does not encourage. In the examples above note that the Society strongly encourages their followers to be honest taxpayers, they never said it was wrong to watch television, they try to encourage elders to be loving (whether this is misguided or not) and they cannot be held responsible for whatever nutty beliefs individual JWs may fall for. So, from a purely logical point of view, none of the reasons above are very good cause for leaving the JWs or for stating they are not the true religion.
If your congregation wasn’t the most loving in the world that does not prove that the JWs are wrong as a whole. Congregations are often encouraged to be loving and outgoing to their members in the pages of the Watchtower. It is not necessarily the Society’s fault if individuals do not heed that advice. For every example of a really nasty Witness (and I have a few in mind), one could be given of a very kind, humble and wise JW. In short, you cannot judge a religion by one of it’s members.
Keep in mind too that many of the actions taken by Witnesses that are harmful, wrong or illegal are often dealt with by the Society. I know of Witness elders that engaged in child molestation and fraud. They were disfellowshipped. Arguments that a Witness committed murder or some other heinous act do nothing in the way of combating the Society, for the organization takes strong steps to correct and discipline people like that (sometimes to a fault).
This does not mean that accounts like the above are not useful in any way. Certainly, unsavory accounts of the JWs help show that the organization is not nearly as perfect, loving and happy as they make themselves out to be. But, it does not PROVE that they are wrong in their teachings or doctrines, nor should experiences like this be used as exemplifying the average Witness. As for “evil” elders, I believe a much better argument is made when one does not just leave the bad experience on its own, but asks “why didn’t the holy spirit work through this brother?” When you make that connection you transfer from the realm of just another bad example to one of doctrinal significance. You transfer from the realm of emotion to that of logic. Usually, though, this is not done.
Actually, many ex-dubs fall into this trap, I believe, because the Society falls into it all the time. We are trained to think this way if we were Witnesses for any length of time. The Watchtower will often recount the injustices of other religions and use those bad examples as being a litmus test for whether they are true Christians or not. That is illogical for them to do, but it is also illogical to use this same tactic against the Society.
Finally, many overgeneralize and exacerbate the Society’s faults because they exhibit the same black/white thinking they were used to as JWs. It’s easy to fall into this trap. The Society paints all outsiders as evil, misled and ignorant and it is human nature to do the same to them – especially since we are personally involved! But, the fact remains it is not a very accurate way of viewing either group – both Witnesses and non-Witnesses.
Comments?
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