Yeru,
I have all the respect in the world for someone who *sincerely* cannot accept homosexuality on prayerfully-considered religious grounds. Believe as you wish, and be happy.
However, I hope you can see my point, too: that your belief leaves me no room to exist at all, except in enforced loneliness. I spent seven years in the JW's that way, secretly feeling all the time that God hated me. I wanted to die. I was miserable. I cannot live that way.
To summarize the problem succinctly:
1. I did not choose to be this way.
2. I can't change the way I am.
3. God never answered my many prayers to be changed.
4. Suicide is a sin too, so there's no escape from this dilemma on earth or in the next world, if your view is correct.
And all of the above will run a person stark screaming crazy--been there, done that.
So what is to be done with me? It's easy to pass judgment on an abstract moral issue--but here I sit, 98.6 degrees, 5'10", age 45, a house mortgage, a car note, a job, a bank account, bills to pay, birthday cards to send, people who love me, a little fuzzy dog curled at my feet. Just as real as you. What is to be done with ME?
Believe as you wish, and be happy.
Meanwhile, what about all these many millions of divorced people nowadays, all of whom are living merrily in adultery, if Christ's own words are taken by the letter? Should they not all "reject that way of life," if they are Christians?
Bill, who long since made his peace with God on this issue.
"If we all loved one another as much as we say we love God, I reckon there wouldn't be as much meanness in the world as there is."--from the movie Resurrection (1979)