Hippikon,
So you worked in Japan.How many years? You seem to have a good grasp
on the pulse of the culture here. Let me elaborate a bit on the cultural dynamics and the WTS growth. Yes, you are right about the
intense loyalty which when betrayed is followed by strong rejection.
The affect that has on JWs here is that when they leave, they tend
to throw out ALL interest in religion.In other words,you don`t see
people leaving and going back to Budhism.A small percentage will seek
out a church (normally protestant) but the majority become totally
non-religious.Since the average Japanese is non-religious to begin
with, I guess that`s not so unusual. You are also right when it comes to the motivation of most housewives.To expand on it a bit; their
motivation could be broken down to 1) Dissatisfaction with their husband 2) Desire for friends which they can really trust and talk
about serious life issues with 3) Concern about keeping their kids
out of an immoral lifestyle 4) Time on their hands and wanting to
`study` something 5) An overall good image of the Bible combined with no knowledge of it`s contents makes them a good mark for a `Free Bible study` AT YOUR HOME, WHILE YOUR HUSBAND IS GONE AT WORK.The
result is most women carry on the study for a year or two or three
without their hisband ever knowing.Then one day, when they announce
that they`ll be attending a weekday evening meeting,the husband gets
angry and tells them it`s irresponsible for a housewife with small
children to go out at night.By that time,however, the wife has been
warned that SATAN will oppose her involvement in the TRUTH.So, when
the husband blows up it merely confirms her idea that what she`s
studying is the truth. It never occurs to her that it`s still culturally unacceptable for women with young children to be out of the home from 6 til 9 at night.In addition to that,by this time women are often pretty upset with their husbands over other issues anyway, so bringing the fight into the realm of `remaining faithful to Jehovah` justs gives them a sense of self-rightousness when going against the wishes of their mate.Sadly the struggle often ends in divorce.
But,perhaps the worst case senerio is when a Japanese husband joins the WT and starts climbing the WTS ladder. Most men who make it big in
the WT are those who were nothing special at their companies.So when
they get promoted in `God`s Organization` all of a sudden they think
their really something and start acting that way at home.They become
little dictators.The results are as you can image... JWD