and did he ever promise his wife that!
No he didn’t, to the contrary infact
You mean to tell me that he told his wife that he was going to continue seeing prostitutes? Geez what a great husband eh?
It's been a long 9 years Lloyd Evans / John Cedars
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ForeverAlone
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Las Malvinas son Argentinas
FYI you can "date" sw in Thailand. You just have to pay for it. It's another "service" they provide.
Someone pasted an ad here for this type of service. It’s why no one is buying these semantic games he’s playing. These “rent-a-date” services end the same way as the classic solicitations, right? Money is paid for the service and he sees the same sex worker on several “dates” for how many he pays for. There’s sex at the end of it either way. No one’s paying for someone to pretend to be charmed by your advances, not even someone as pathetic as Lloyd. I’d imagine this service is geared towards men with low self-esteem or ones who have been especially unlucky with ladies (Lloyd) so it makes the whole sex-for-hire experience somewhat more palatable. I’m sure if he pays the higher tier he’ll even get a letter supposedly from the sex worker afterwards saying they are so into him and are awaiting his return.
You mean to tell me that he told his wife that he was going to continue seeing prostitutes?
The Lloyd Evans Parody account has pasted snippets of this email to Dijana more than a few times on Twitter. He was trying to excuse his Thailand behaviour and save his marriage, so we got to see Lloyd in the negotiator role in a bid to stop his wife from divorcing him. His compromise was to come off the dating apps and see a sex worker in Zagreb every 2 or 3 months.
Classic abuser tactics, promise whatever just to halt the divorce and then return right to it once they feel safe again. Watch “OJ: Made in America”. Placing the double murder aside, OJ pulled the same shit when his wife was close to leaving.
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ForeverAlone
The Lloyd Evans Parody account has pasted snippets of this email to Dijana more than a few times on Twitter
Do you have links to these snippets? I have not seen them, I guess.
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Listener
I thought he claimed in his video that he didn't have any relationships with females and satisfied his urges by paying sex workers.
Later he claims he was dating the sex worker in Thailand, meaning he was doing both.
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KIMSILVIO
I have been watching lots of old activist videos - using transformers as witnesses in mock JW scenarios, Jehovah bear, And the creative ideas are amazing. Some are very funny and some are serious. I love the mix.
I came across son of thunders videos - and really enjoy them - I saw his video about lloyd, which i initially watched about a year ago - with fresh and less emotionally confused eyes I watched it again.
Along with many other activists at that time, SOT clearly understood what lloyd was doing.
In the video he speaks in such absolute language “you just can’t walk into…..” as an example. I realise now that he has always done this. He uses language that convinces people that his point of view is correct, 100% correct and nothing but 100% correct and if you disagree then you are 100% wrong.
No wonder he has so many supporters. As ex cult members we don’t readily see this manipulation.
The community has recently been discussing what activism looks like to them, and it occurred to me that Lloyd has very much funneled the community into his brand of activism, online and lining his pockets.
Anything that doesn’t keep him in the spotlight on him and/or directly make him money, is bad activism. (Labeled aggressive activism etc to hide his true meaning). Activism efforts have been curtailed to smaller, individual efforts. This is wrong.
He said in his bs livestream that he has “sent the elevator down” for new activists and to an extent I agree. In part he did, providing they conformed to his brand of activism and as long as they revered him sufficiently.
My statement referred to activists from the past. I’m sure a lot of his supporters missed that finely crafted bs. I feel that people who left in the last few years would have limited understanding about true activism, outside the screenshot of YouTube. That makes me sad.
I realise I am diarizing at the moment, thank you for the space. As the new year of 2023 came around, on this day one year ago, I came to completely understand exactly who Lloyd Evans was and that no matter what I did or said, nothing that had been revealed in the weeks leading up to this day one year ago, could be fixed.
I remember the emotions, feelings, fear, anger, confusion. I reflect a lot on this day, one year ago, and I say thank you to that day, I have learnt so much about myself, people, society and life since then and I am very grateful 💗
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Las Malvinas son Argentinas
Do you have links to these snippets? I have not seen them, I guess.
Why not. I don’t believe this thread is meant to send you to the information, but rather bring the information to you. I’m not sure which order these go into. Enjoy.
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Las Malvinas son Argentinas
He uses language that convinces people that his point of view is correct, 100% correct and nothing but 100% correct and if you disagree then you are 100% wrong.
You are spot on. I can speak from the time when he was posting here before we knew what his real name was: he was doing precisely this. He wasn’t interested in the 95% or even the 99% in agreement. If you had a disagreement with him, no matter how minor, he would at best never trust you again and would look to contradict you in a future post.
At worst he would ride you hard until you just gave up out of exhaustion and then circle you in a victory lap. He was that vicious. If you dared to stand up to him, he’d insist you were attacking him and his wife and would give this sob story about him suffering from depression. He basically did to you exactly what he was accusing you of, and his supporters would line up to take cheap shots at you.
He’s a liar, a bully, and mentally ill. What makes him dangerous is the amount of time he has on his hands. Some people laughed at him when he ranted at Kim and the M7 that he would spend the next 40 years travelling far and wide to exact his revenge.
I didn’t. Though the link is now dead, he meant every fucking word of that. He’s serious.
If you have the time read “Raven” - the biography of Jim Jones written by a reporter who was shot on the tarmac in Guyana. Not trying to make a direct comparison between JLE and Jones, but a poignant remark was made about Jones in the end.
He had no intention of People’s Temple ever surviving him. Lloyd has a similar mindset. If he can’t dominate this community or at very least make a good living off of it, he will take it down in flames with him.
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Vintage
LMsA, I see your point. Your last paragraph speaks volumes. Lloyd never offers, or even hints at, a conclusion. He never speaks of helping the exjws who support him to find peace and genuine friendship with each other. He never encourages those who are young and strong enough to go ahead and study for a trade and aim for a modicum of financial security. Everything Lloyd does is focused on rallying everyone around “him”.
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smiddy3
OK freinds no likes and 13 dislikes ? I can take a hint LOL,
Seriously though I hear you loud and clear ,my bad for not taking seriously that many of you have been hurt and threatened legally by him .
Thanks fo all your comments and your point is well taken .
Take care
smiddy
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Thisismein1972
Smiddy3
I understand where you are trying to come from, but that time is up now. There was once a time when your comment would have garnered likes as people were still brainwashed into the Lloyvidian society. That time is way past its sell-by date.
Just looking at the excerpts from his self-published book gives me the creeps. He goes into detail about his rather creepy behavior. He bullies and abuses people, and doxes them and he needs to be stopped before something even more serious happens.
If it wasn't for the community rallying around Kim (unlike the community rallying around Mike and Kim and Marc and Cora) then he would be taking things to the next level. Mike and Kim warned us a long time ago, along with the VAA that this man was not who he says he is and everyone said exactly what you have said, leaving Lloyd to run rampant and get away with some pretty awful things. He's driven people away by scaring them half to death.
I knew as soon as I saw his thumbnail back in 2014 there was something not right about him, but I never let my very good instincts kick in and realized just how screwed up he is. Thanks to him though, I now use my instincts all the time.
One last thing about your last post though. I note you mention people being hurt by him, but you have not at all mentioned the people he affected by doxing them or his "dating" of sex-trafficked young women(girls) and using prostitutes from poor countries that exploit young women in desperation, all while having his wedding ring on. This does not affect you in the slightest at all. All admitted by himself by the way.