Dijana wanted to wait until after she had Jessica to start to fade. She didn’t want to DA however what Lloyd wants, lloyd gets.
Now isn't this just a special blend of fucked up. There was some discussion here when he was babbling all about how he was planning to conjure up a JC for himself by writing that article. He was no longer here but he was posting on Facebook his plans and how he would have felt remiss if their child had been born with either parent still officially affiliated with JWs. He wanted a "clean break" which seems reasonable, but as long as the child does not get exposed to any WT material, I can't see how one parent being inactive and fading would have been much different.
I made the point then and I do now: A woman in her third trimester of pregnancy shouldn't needlessly be exposed to stressful meetings with elders and all the drama behind a DA letter, especially when they still had no clue as to the extent of how her parents would shun them. The elders seemed content to leave Dijana out of it and probably would have just let her fade. Considering the circumstances regarding them living with her parents, that would have been the wiser move.
But Lloyd couldn't bear to have them shun him whilst still in association with Dijana and the baby. He gets shunned, everyone gets shunned. Lloyd can do what he wants for himself and if a confrontation with the elders was what he wanted to do then go ahead. But don't drag your pregnant wife along with you who'd much rather fade.
"You're getting DAed with me. I insist! It's best for our child!"
How sick. Let me guess: When Dijana initially pushed against that plan, Lloyd accused her of still being mentally in.
"You still have a JW Mindset! You should watch my videos and fully wake up! Oh and who is cooking supper tonight? You or your mum? I'm getting hungry."
Since he knows everything about the thought patterns of exJWs, let's have our cult expert Tibor Cecelja come on here to explain why Dijana had to follow what her husband had prescribed for her for us plebs.