I have read the whole thread and understand the worry that some people have and also understand the way some have strategies not to comply.
I have worries. My ex has custody of my son, and he does things that are against the rules but also he won't break other rules. For example he won't remarry as neither of us have committed adultery and he has been warned against it.
I don't know how seriously he would take this, and how my son who is 14 and awake will take it. He is very adamant about not going to meetings or the memorial or assemblies. Also he is not an unbaptised publisher and doesn't go door to door. So in reality I am hoping that the elders view him as a non witness and will leave him be, but his dad might be controlling in that aspect.
This does indeed concern me.
Kate xx