Confusing Good Sex as Love (page 3)

Stacy Smith

Call me young and naive (got the t-shirt) but if one could confuse good sex with love could someone confuse bad sex with not being in love?

Thank you for the compliment Rob. You are very sweet, oh and please post pics of that short skirt you'll be wearing at work soon

Well, of you wearing the skirt, not just the silly skirt

Robdar

if one could confuse good sex with love could someone confuse bad sex with not being in love

Good question. Much to my chagrin, I have done that. If I have very cerebral feelings for a guy and they are not my cup of tea sexually, I tend to get over my infatuation rather quickly.

I would love to show you the skirt. Perhaps when I get my digicamera back, I will post a pic.

Speaking of pics, did you get many while in Tahoe?

Rob

Rob the closest we got to Tahoe was Vallejo which is still at least 200 miles away. My friends car broke down and we had to turn around and limp back home. So two of my friends slept over and we broke some drinking laws. I'm not certain but I think I hit on Tinkerbell in chat. It was a blur.

If any pics were taken that night I just hope they didn't turn up on the internet.

teejay

Believe it or not, falling in love is a decision. You DECIDE to fall in love, it's not something that happens to you, like falling into a river or something. -- francois

Frank,

This will come as a major shock, but I disagree with you. I don't think people sit at home and decide, "Hmmm. Today I think I'll fall in love with my friend So-and-So." It just happens. All of a sudden. Pretty much like... well... like falling into a river or something.

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TeeJay, don't take this wrong but I like it that you like the way I think. Robyn

Robyn, sweetie?

You can take this any which way you want, but I like it that you like that I like the way you think. I like it very much, as a matter of fact.

Oh... and thanks for the cookies. And for that little thing that you do when you do what you do. (x)

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Rob... you are very sweet, oh and please post pics of that short skirt you'll be wearing at work soon. -- Stacy Smith

Yes. I must say... a very fine idea, Stacy.

We insist that Robyn post pics of her fine self in that little skirt of hers. The sooner, the better.

gambit

1. Eros---love of beauty. The lovers delight in the sensual, the immediate. They love the lines of each others bodies and are fascinated by each other.
2. Mania--obsessive love. For these lovers, satisfaction from love lasts only a few moments before the feelings must be renewed. They will lose sleep and not be able to stop thinking about the object of their affection.
3. Ludis--Playful love. Love is a game, something to play at rather than become too deeply involved in. Love is for fun, casual and often careless, nothing serious.
4. Storge--natural affection or love between companions. It usually starts in friendship and develops into something deeper.
5. Agape--brotherly love. It is abstract and ideal.
6. Pragma--Lovers are business like in looking for someone who meets their needs.

Robdar -- Again, you don't sound confused at all...

I have never seen this list, and I would have to say that I have never had sex where atleast one of these forms of love was not present...

Or a mix of Ludis / Pragma (Casual and Fun, yet careful and restrained, filling some loneliness)...
or Storge / Mania ( where the "friend" becomes jealous)
or Eros / Agape (Young love, yet both partners mature)