It's like this:
You grow up in an abusive household. You stay because you don't know any different and there are people there that you have ties to and love.
One day you make a mistake and your dad throws you out of the house.
A friend takes you in and you go to live with their family. In that new home you find love, acceptance, and healing. This new family tells you that they want to adopt you into their family permanently.
Your abusive father comes back and says.....well...if I clean up the house a little will you come home?
Uh........NOT!!
I was a 'dub - but have now found a true relationship with my Lord. To use a scripture so often quoted by the JW's in Romans chapter 8:37-39 " For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord. "
God is NOT the Jehovah that the dubs portray him to be.