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"Nervous Breakdown"
by StinkyPantz 89 Replies latest watchtower medical
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MrMoe
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Prisca
Simon,
What you said to Stinky was cruel and deliberately hurtful.
You claim this board is one for support, yet when one of our most interesting and intelligent members makes a cry for support, you dismiss her feelings with as much regard as what one would have for a speck of dust.
Stinky does not deserve the treatment you have given her over the past few months. I know you see both of us as trouble-makers, but I really think that is because of your own insecurities, unable to deal with women who are out-spoken and intelligent. In part, the JWism of your life is to blame, but it is also up to you to overcome your prejudices and learn to treat people with empathy and respect.
I hope that you apologise to Stinky for your unkind comments, and more importantly, learn some compassion and understanding of people, so that you treat people in a more humane way.
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riz
shazam!!
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jst2laws
Prisca,
You seem to have read something into Simon's comments:
You didn't say that you were having one SPm just what the symptoms were and how you would know.
Whether your interpretation is accurate or not does not justify your shouting attack. SP is my friend too, and yet I agree that asking her offline friends would be best if she had personal concerns. If she does ask I hope she accepts their advise. Meanwhile perhaps you owe someone an apology as well. Lets just keep things peaceful, can't we? SteveIf you have to ask then you are most likely not having one. Your friends would know instead so you should as any offline friends you may have.
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Prisca
Well, J2L, how do you interpret Simon's comments, not just on this thread but Donkey's "Sombody's Hurting" thread as well?
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Simon
Prisca
Learn to read.
You don't have to go out of your way to put a negative interpretation on everything I write. How would you feel if I did the same to you? I think you have posted plenty more stuff that could be interpreted that way.
I did not post anything critical or insulting - just factual and useful. You should try it one day. The batteries for your alternate reality must be running out now.
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MrMoe
I really hope you don't think I am blasting you Simon or trying to start trouble, I don't think Donkey is either. I feel bad for SP, to be worried you are suffering from a nervous breakdown has got to be terrifying. Your comment shocked me and I don't think you yourself realize how it came across, perhaps your comment was misunderstood? Don't you feel bad for her?
I know your purpose of this board and the more serious moderation is a result of your wanting to help people, and I know SP is in the limelight of the flames, but shouldn't that be a hint she is emotional? Please don't become hardened or judge her on past actions. I think you feel like people here gang up on you, and I for one do not. Seeign the good in everyone isn't an easy task, but SP is a good kid who is going throug ha lot right now. I don't care about her past, all I care about is that she is upset, and I know you care, too, or you wouldn't be posting here when you are on vacation.
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logansrun
You can get through this Bridgette.
(((((SP)))))
Love,
Bradley
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Satanus
*Sigh* Stinky causes problems again.
SS
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FlyingHighNow
I think Simon meant that you won't always know if you are having a nervous breakdown but your friends might. I don't think Simon meant to do anything but help in his own way.
Having been through a meltdown myself from too much stress, when I was still in the org. I will say though, that often times you do know something is terribly wrong because you will feel "like you are going crazy" and you will not be able to cope with the slightest demands. Putting your feet over the edge of the bed to touch the floor will seem overwhelming. It's something that will last, too. It won't go away in a few hours or days without help. A nervous breakdown is serious and profound. It's not just blues or anxiety or depression even, it's those three to the 100th power. If you find yourself sliding in this direction then please get some help even it's only through a support group, possibly through your local mental health department.
Heather