You've all been great with your responses and you've all been kind offering heart felt advice. I do appreciate that. First of all let me say that asking here really isn't a sign of indecision. I do this sort of thing with major decisions almost all the time. Usually I just ask my friends what they think (even if I've made up my mind) and this time I included you guys.
Im going to answer Panda directly because I found those interesting observations.
See how your honey treats his mother (this is of paramount importance).
This one I'm familiar with. I've always believed that if a guy treats his mom poorly that he'll treat you even worse.
Does he ever (and I mean EVER) ask you for money
No he hasn't. As it turns out he doesn't hurt for money. He drives a junker but that's because nice cars get ruined at school. I thought he was very poor at first and I was waiting for him to bum a few bucks off of me, like some guys do.
Does he wear socks? Are his shoes slip on or tie.
This is interesting. Yes he wears socks and doesn't wear slipons. He has velcro type cycling shoes but so do I. I am thinking of the guy that asked me out before Mike did, he was a player and did wear slipons without socks. Interesting indeed.
Do you actually have fun in bed, not the usual rabid rabbit thing but really enjoy being together.
We have great sex but there are times in the mornings where we've just layed there talking and talking. He is really intelligent and I am fascinated by him and enjoy our conversations. So lots of time we are talking when we could be just doing it.
I have noticed that couples who stay together are the ones who hold hands. Kiss each other hello. Generally extend common curtesy to each other, NOT just in public but private too
We will hug and do a little peck when we meet in public. PDA's aren't comfortable for me. Hand holding in the movies suck with those sweaty hands but I will wrap my arm around his. He will touch my face or hair every so often. Very affectionate guy. My parents still to this day hold hands while walking together. A couple of horny teenagers those guys.
Fights --- they happen. If they don't there's something wrong. Lacy and Scott Petrerson NEVER fought.
Yikes, he's gone. Loser never wants to fight. Well just little ones that end in a couple of mintues. We've never left each other angry.
