Being too picky>>> (page 2)

Islandboy99,
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Australia guarantees safety, I know that. Chill out and stop being so judgemental??? Ive also been criticised for that, funny enough, I never say anything bad, its my body language and non-verbal language that gives the impression I 'ooze'.
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"They are looking for the same thing you are."

I know that, but they have a hard time expressing it.....well I would say.

asleif_dufansdottir

Ive been labelled by many as too picky. This ever happen to you guys?...I might meet this good looking chick, and she wants to have sex immediately, and Im not into that

Well, if you'll accept a comment from a middle-aged married lady, rather than one of the guys...my guess is that you're "picky" about the wrong things.

Maybe you only want somebody who looks like they came straight out of a "Girls Gone Wild" video, but doesn't act like it. (could be wrong, ignore me if I am)

I'm guessing there are a lot of nice women in your area, who share your standards of behavior, but you aren't meeting them or paying attention if you do because they don't look like bimbettes.

I say this because I've known so many men who are balding and in their forties and working at mediocre jobs, who constantly complain because "no one will go out with them." What they mean is, no one who looks like a playboy playmate will go out with them. When their women friends try to set them up with someone who is more their age, or who is carrying a few extra pounds, they're not interested.Not that you're forty-ish and balding, but if you aren't finding the right women then it's at least possible you're looking in the wrong places.

frenchbabyface

but if you aren't finding the right women then it's at least possible you're looking in the wrong places.

Yes I think it's all about that ... most of the time somehow (eyes are not our friends)

gumby

Hey, its just my morals and what I believe in, still, I owe it to myself not to conform to what society does, rather, to do what I feel is right, and not to break hearts by leaving straight after Ive done the 'deed'.

I think if I were single I'd be the same way. For some reason the sex thing along with morals seems to have stuck with me after becoming an apostate heathen.

As far as wanting more innocent and moral women......why not go to a baptist church and make whores out of the women there? (just kiddin)

Gumby

Sentinel

I have to admit, I'd hate to be back in the dating scene at my age--or be living as a young single person in this day and age.

The thing is most of the attitudes are about "feeling good" and forgetting responsibility and accountability. I will probably get into trouble for saying this, but women today know how to play the game. They are loose and I find that quite unappealing and "dirty". I suppose if you are a guy, and you are doing the same thing, you don't care; but just as a young man recently told me, "I'd get married and have kids, but I can't find a decent girl. There are no virgins anymore. Girls sleep around too much, and I don't like that. Girls want guys to get them pregnant so they have the child support income, and they know how to play the system". Wow.

However, let it be noted that there are good people out there. It's just difficult to connect. Have you tried any of those dating agencies? I'm serious. Supposedly they screen people down to the detail, and you have more of an opportunity connecting with someone who really suits you. You won't find "Miss Perfect", because that person does not exist. But you probably can find someone who feels about life the way you do, someone who has morals and who has a conscience, and who would appreciate you for who you are.

No one wants used goods. I think society is trying to turn around, but it will take time. The loose life has produced all these children who are now having emotional and psychological issues. The term "family" has taken on a new meaning. Something's got to give.

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RAYZORBLADE

Frantic, you are of the dying breed of men called: GENTLEMEN.

I think that is what we could call you, and by golly dude, there's nothing wrong with that.

Yeah, things are all too easy and sleazy these days. In some ways, that is fine. Whatever floats your boat.

But I'd say when the 'right one' comes along, I can assure you, it'll be someone you least expect it to be.

I know.

Best wishes to you Frantic, and stick to your guns, and teach some of us fornicators: some class and also how to be: a gentleman.

Thumbs up to you mate!

Guest 77

Frantic, your on the right course. I may not know your entire circumstance but I know that when it comes to dating & sex, YOU JUST DON'T KNOW!

As the saying goes, better safe than sorry! Stay the course. There's plenty of time, for the you know what! There's nothing wrong with keeping willy chilly.

Guest 77

Heatmiser

Hey what ever floats your boat dude. You have to live your life the way you are happy, and if that makes you "seem" picky, so be it.

Keep looking, you will eventualy find what you want.

Heatmiser

Calling travel agent as I type. LOL

Xena

funny you complain about being labeled for your "morals" but then you label others for theirs

9 out of 10 good lookin chicks are sluts!

sluts huh? Why because they want to have sex when they want to have it? I can't stand judgemental people on EITHER side of the road myself.

That said, I miss the art of seduction....being asked to "show me your tits" isn't really very erotic to me personally, go figure huh? I want a man who knows how to woo with words and isn't afraid to shout to the world how much he loves you....

where have those men gone????

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