Being too picky>>> (page 3)

gumby

I want a man who knows how to woo with words and isn't afraid to shout to the world how much he loves you.... where have those men gone????

I love my sweet little dub wife!!!!!!!!

See.....theres still some of those men around.

asleif_dufansdottir

"I'd get married and have kids, but I can't find a decent girl. There are no virgins anymore. Girls sleep around too much, and I don't like that. ...No one wants used goods

I'm sorry but I find this attitude repulsive. Have we learned nothing??? What are we? Back in the '50's or in some culture where a woman's only worth is in the fact that a guy has never been between her legs???

You know, you really should have said that "No guy wants used goods...but 'nice' girls...that special class of women reserved for marriage instead of sex...they have to just keep their mouths shut and accept that men are going to sleep around. Before and after marriage."

I don't think it's wise for either sex to be bangin a mile long laundry list of people. I don't think women should be virgins prior to marriage, either. And I think it's offensive when some guys promote that idea (just to be fair...edited to add...and just as offensive when other women do).

You know what? There are a lot of decent women who are not virgins. They have as much right to enjoy sex and have sexual partners as men do.

And I think they deserve an apology for statements like that. You just slammed every female member of this board who ever had sex outside of marriage (and offended a few that didn't).

frenchbabyface

Asleif !!! Again Well Said !!!

Maverick

Welcome to the new millennium bro! I do agree that you have to do, (morally speaking) what is comfortable to you. I personally would not get involved with a virgin again, (married one)! They're a lot of work and you never know what kind of crap they have been fed before you came along. You do need to travel in a different crowd. Sounds like you hang with the meat-market pack. Go take some classes at the local college, or do volunteer work. There are a lot of nice ladies out there. You just have to work a little...oops! did I just use that nasty four letter word?

I would not want to deal with the young girls, I talk to them everyday. My beautiful 19 year-old daughter has a ton of friends and they are scary good looking. But they talk about the dopiest crap! I'd rather hit myself in the head with a rock and die, rather than hook up with one of them!

Anyway, what is the rush? And what do you have to offer a nice girl? You're young, figure out who YOU are and learn to be the kind of man classy ladies are attracted to. I wish you the best! Maverick

Englishman

I really don't see how anyone can criticise a person for what they did before you came into their life. OK, I know that there are extremes that are intolerable, but a person having been involved in several relationships is, IMHO, a necessary learning curve essential to settling down with a life-long partner.

Englishman.

Xena

I love my sweet little dub wife!!!!!!!!

See.....theres still some of those men around.

Yea and they are married to someone else apparently

Frantic

Xena, my 'stats' are fake - obviously - a mere exaggeration. Ur right, judgemental ppl do suck.
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asleif, good point. There are a lot of decent women who are not virgins. However, everything worsens.....read into it what u will. Like with ur example of the 50's or even times before then.
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No one wants used goods? Selfish in a way, yet, if this were the case globally, imagine how 'cleaner' the dating scene would be! Of course, you can try b4 you buy, which brings us up to date now....either prison or freedom - those are your choices. Of course, prison reffering to the modern day marriage, and freedom, well....a free for all. Although I wouldnt consider this an accurate analogy of marraige/dating nor a reflection of how I see marriage, it does however concrete the belief that its much easier to live life void of boundaries, rather than with.
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As you said asleif, there are decent women who are not virgins, and by my definition "mean well". However, I believe some are confused. On first glance, one may appear 'sluttish' or better put, "easily attainable". After spending minutes, hours, even days with that person, perceptions begin to change, and well....she'll confide in me a little more - dropping the deceptive facade she had the night before, and most guys would see, underneath it all, lies a softer/warmer person. My first impression of this girl may of contributed to the fact that she was treated poorly by other men, thus developing her "outer shell".

For me, Id prefer a girl who didnt get around. With that said, it brings a sense of security to the relationship because we can trust in ourselves something better isnt on offer elsewhere.
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frenchbabyface

My question is : why all those details about what you want about her previous "sexual life" what are you obsede about ? Do you really know what you want or what is good for you as far as you didn't find it.

Why not just focus on the one you feell good with ... well you have to know about it ... which ways ? ... who cares ? your business !!! Their is a time for everything and each once choices about what, when, why ...
why bother with sexual details ... love is not about sex ?

Pleasuredome

i have to turn down at least 10 women a week. honestly, its a living nightmare.

frenchbabyface

yeh I have, many times, and they all want to fuck (winks). Dillemma is, the ones Ive felt good with so far are too predictable, meaning they'll just move right along to the next guy. Back to square one.

Does that mean that you are not able to satisfied nor hold them OR WHAT ? (something is weird in your statements - or I missed something in the message)

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