SEX: As a JW, Were you ever thisclose to having sex and then chickened out?

by Funchback 46 Replies latest jw experiences

  • SanFranciscoJim
    SanFranciscoJim

    I actually had sex with a "worldly" friend once while I was a JW. We were both drunk and the next thing we knew, we were in bed.

    I awoke the next morning so terrified that I had given up my chance at survival in Armageddon that I immediately ran to the Kingdom Hall and told the elders what I had done. Because of the fact that I was "repentant" (actually, I wasn't -- I was just scared out of my wits) and that alcohol was a factor (go figure!), I was only administered private reproof.

    This was from the same body of elders who later administered public reproof to me for going to see The Rocky Horror Picture Show in the theater! Private reproof for having gay sex, but public reproof for going to see a comedy movie about transvestite space aliens. Weird punishment structure, these JWs......

  • Funchback
    Funchback

    keeshah (I want to say your name the way Ludacris would: "Keesh-ahhhhhh")-

    Eventually you get so overwhelmed with guilt that you end up telling the elders. And they DO want to know all of the nasty details ESPECIALLY if you are a woman. Hopefully, you are confused no longer.

    I also remember that a brother was giving a Sunday talk and he read a Proverb about he who is covering over his sins will not succeed. I then immediately after the meeting went to an elder to confess that I had masturbated recently.

    What a dumb, gullible, teen I was.

  • maxwell
    maxwell

    I was mostly innocent also. I was actually a shy and quiet person naturally. I was also a bit of a nerd, but even so, there were still a few girls who showed interest in some type of relationship and two who showed a clear and definite interest in some physical activity. While I wouldn't have been able to actually go out with them due to my parents restictions, the opportunity for sex did exist. I turned them both down because of JW beliefs and while I have to admit I regret it a bit when I think of it, I try not to dwell too much on the past.

  • Surreptitious
    Surreptitious

    Stilla, are you stilla married?

    Once with in the car behind Albertsons

    Big Tex sings: "It's Joe Albertson's...supermarket. But the parking lot department is mine!"

  • Sassy
    Sassy

    I was pretty good most of my life being a JW. A couple times I was with a brother and some kissing, etc began and i worried when was the time to stop and say NO, we can't go farther, but they always seemed to read my mind and quit just about the moment before I could open my mouth and say my conscience couldn't take any more..

    Then later after gettting divorced, I did get into trouble with worldly guys. The first was a guy I met on line who told me he was a JW and he knew I wanted to behave, knew what it was like to be a JW since he was raised around them (his family was), but he had no itention of not having sex.. and well.. I didn't end up saying no.. I guess that was the begginning of my slide out of the WTS, even though it took years longer to completely pull me out.

  • Yerusalyim
    Yerusalyim

    This is not just a JW experience...me...the newly 17 year old Catholic male....her...the beautiful and horny non church going 19 year old vamp...stopped at mutual masturbation (can I do it til I need glasses?) Man...she was ripe...and ripe for the pickings...I was a scared little rabbit with stinky finger syndrome who backed out even though she quite plainly said she wanted more (as she handed me a rubber from the glove box...her car...I didn't own one yet.

  • Stacy Smith
    Stacy Smith

    Oh the regrets Yeru, the regrets you must have.

  • gumby
    gumby
    This is not just a JW experience...me...the newly 17 year old Catholic male....her...the beautiful and horny non church going 19 year old vamp...stopped at mutual masturbation (can I do it til I need glasses?) Man...she was ripe...and ripe for the pickings...I was a scared little rabbit with stinky finger syndrome who backed out even though she quite plainly said she wanted more (as she handed me a rubber from the glove box...her car...I didn't own one yet.

    Mike.....you poor lonely horny bastard! You can read your hornier than a damn poodle all over that post! ..( just kiddin.......kinda) Gumby

  • gumby
    gumby
    Stacy Smith Jan 1, 2004
    Just as soon as I got close to getting laid I got laid.
    I hope I don't scream out her name tonight in my sleep Gumby
  • Soledad
    Soledad

    I was once really close......reeeeealllyyy close....then my "bible trained conscience" kicked in.

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