I was a good little JW full time pioneer boy, who was too chicken to even think about getting laid. I did, however, date eligible sisters in my quest for the "perfect" mate ( whatever that meant). One young sister who was was about 2-3 years yonger than me, and was not from a theocratic family, accepted a date to go to the movies. It was a hot summer nite and we ended up after the movie at a local beach, not to go swimming. Of course the beach was deserted and we made it hotter. Low and behold, this young sister ( who was a real "looker") had a bit more experience than me and caused me to clam up with that damn christian conscience!! As a young ministerial servant. I was confused --thinking that I should possibly be counciling this girl ( HA HA--what an pious stuck up ass I was!)
Lo and behold, 2 years later when I broke from the Jws, and started my colIege years, ( therapy and deprogramming ) got laid at age 22, a bit late in life for this sort of thing. And when I realized what I had missed out on all these years--I made up for lost time and literally left no stone unturned---I cannot deny it--I had great fun. I was not into breaking any hearts, just having fun, and all of my partners seem to think the same way. No more christian concscience. Phew.
This was also before time of AIDS. The biggest concern back then was getting your partner pregnent.
From this point in my life I can look back and say that sex is meant to be enjoyed, with no guilt. It happens when it happens and provided that it is between two consenting adults, is none of anyone elses business One more whack at the JW teachings I was raised with.