And this was in the 80s...
Bisous, I did assume you hadn't been to Mississippi,I apologize about that. I hope people in Mississippi are more accepting of interacial relationships by this time.
My fiance was born and raised here in Michigan. He tells me the difference between most northern states and the southern ones is that the prejudice is in the open down south and up here people are quiet about it.
I was at a birthday dinner last night and a man there said he wasn't into football or any other sports anymore because of "there are too many colored people playing them." Was this man from the South? No, he was born and raised in Chicago by Slovakian immigrant parents. They moved to Michigan when he was in his teens during the 1950s. I hear more of racism and prejudice up here than I dreamed I would.
It bothers me that people think racial prejudice is a southern thing. It just isn't true. Most of us take the rap for the vocal few.
Again, I apologize for my assumption and I hope that you realize most southerners do not share the views of those who hurt you.
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