Gentlesoul, I wish you well on your spiritual journey. I also am a Christian, never a JW. I, however, continue to find enrichment at JWD. It is a place to read, to listen, and to learn, as well as a place to contribute. I suggest if you ever join a board like this again, that you practice the reading, listening, and learning a bit more before you dispense advice.
It was fun, it was real, it was real fun...
by gentlesoul 46 Replies latest jw friends
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jgnat
- "It is no use walking anywhere to preach unless our walking is our preaching."
- Saint Francis Of Assisi (1181 - 1226)
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patio34
I thought that coming here I could help some by teaching and expressing my beliefs and Gods word, and I really don't need the view points of some of those who disagree about what or where Gods word is or how it is a lie or something because the bible is my gold, it is my life and I choose to put my faith in it just the same as some of you choose not to put your faith in it. -- GentleSoul
Well, at least you're honest about your intentions. You didn't come here to share on an equal basis, but to "teach," but not wanting any disagreement. This seems to be the attitude of a lot of religious people. Don't you see anything wrong with that picture? If you don't want disagreement, then why talk? If people want to be "taught," believe me, they'll find the teacher they want.
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Joyzabel
Well, at least you're honest about your intentions. You didn't come here to share on an equal basis, but to "teach," but not wanting any disagreement. This seems to be the attitude of a lot of religious people. Don't you see anything wrong with that picture? If you don't want disagreement, then why talk? If people want to be "taught," believe me, they'll find the teacher they want.
Well said, Pat.
Sorry Gentlesoul you don't feel you belonged here.
Joy
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Winston Smith :>D
gentlesoul ,
I know you are not trying to be condescending and you seem to truly want us to have a happy life.
But you are so far off base as to what this board is about that I don?t know if it is even worth my precious time trying to explain to you what this site is to us.
But being a glutton for punishment, here I go?
You call this DB a place of ?nothing? and ? place to share misery?.
I?m sorry to say this gentlesoul, but you couldn?t be ANYMORE WRONG if you tried!!!
To describe this board full of wonderful, caring and self-sacrificing people with your above words is a kick to the nuts for me.
?don?t tell me it?s raining when your pissing down my back?
Cause that?s how your attitude to this board feels to me anyways?
willyloman called it a RECOVERY ROOM.
I?ll take it a level further and call it a full-blown X-JW hospital.
Would you walk into a hospital and tell a doctor who has been there for 5, 10, 20+ years that he should leave the hospital because?
?all a hospital is full of is death a misery???
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Let me clue you in on something gentlesoul?
?I could not have escaped the WTS and kept my sanity as I have over the last 8 months if it were not for this board and for the wonderful, caring people here who have helped me.
Complete strangers who have helped me either by direct comments to me, by calling me on the phone, emailing me, or just writing out their thoughts on a completely unrelated topic.
And yes, some of these people have been out of the bOrg for years, maybe even decades.
But you know what?
They still come here to help people like me.
These people come here to help others like me who are just waking up to the truth about the g*damn Troof. To help people like me who are having their very lives ripped into pieces right before their eyes because of this hateful cult.
And you know why they help?
If you think it?s because they only like misery and have no lives outside of this board?
?then you are only embarrassing yourself and more clueless than I could have ever imagined.
You might as well tell a surgeon who gets involved with helping burn victims recover that he is only involved because he likes the gore aspect of the job.
That a doctor?s involvement has nothing to do with his love for people.
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Did you ever think that, just maybe, HE became a doctor because HE knew of others he loved suffer the pain of being a burn victim, and now he wants to help others???
Some people accuse a person of taking up the career as a doctor for the money, and not the love of people.
What motivation do others have to come here and share their UNPAID time in helping complete strangers besides the fact that they genuinely want to help people?
Which now gets me to start Q?ing your reason for coming here gentlesoul?
You said:
??coming here I could help some by teaching and expressing my beliefs and Gods word, and I really don't need the view points of some??
There is sure is a lot of ?ME? and ?I? in that sentence, isn?t there???
To me, all you sound like is someone who wanted to spout off HIS OWN personal viewpoints regardless of what was best for those around him.
To spout off the good word of the lord as YOU see it.
You know what I think of you now gentlesoul???
At first I gave you the benefit of the doubt.
But after further review,
?you seem like nothing but a bible thumping ambulance chaser in a hospital full of sick X-JW?s who is only interested in getting his next client so that you can cash in your heavenly insurance settlement before whatever selfish god you serve because you saved another X-JW?s soul.
You really don?t give a damn about any of us in here. Your standing before god is the only thing you seem to care about. If really you loved people like you claim to do as a follower of the Christian scriptures, you wouldn?t have seen this place as a morgue full of death and misery, but rather as a place of healing and growth.
Avishai said to make sure that the door doesn?t hit your ass on the way out.
He was WAY TOO kind.
I?d like to use some expletives to close this out, but I?m sure I?d regret it.
Whatever ...
Go do what ya gotta do and leave the heavy lifting to the true lovers of people.
I?m sure god will be happy with you tending to the easy stuff.
Go take your mina and wrap it in cloth.
Hope it stays nice and shiny until your judgment day.
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Gopher
We should be easy on Gentlesoul. He/she is 66 years old, has his/her opinions, and doesn't understand this board. GS's words seem harsh to us, but they may have been intended as helpful, in an "amateur psychology" way.
Some never-been-JW's do understand the need for a place like this, and that it is more than a complaint board.
Gentlesoul, just be glad you don't need to understand.
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Winston Smith :>D
We should be easy on Gentlesoul. He/she is 66 years old, has his/her opinions, and doesn't understand this board.
gopher
I relly apprecaite your concern and kindness,
but I don't go walking into support groups for rape victims telling them to get over it and stop dwelling on the negative.
gentlesoul needs to get a clue or otherwise just move on like they say they are doing.
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cruzanheart
'Bye.
Nina
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Nathan Natas
Buh-bye, whoever you are.
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Gopher
but I don't go walking into support groups for rape victims telling them to get over it and stop dwelling on the negative.
Winston -- I couldn't agree more! But some people think that just by going up to an abused person and saying "cheer up", that they will. Some people will never understand, and this site is not for them.
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Nathan Natas
Gopher - it's like people who say, "I will pray for you." Yeah, thanks for nothing.