I had a hard time min..
I never measured up.......
but also.
My freakin' dresses never "measured down" far enough. LOL
sincerely
Special K
Were You Ever Counseled For Your Attitude or Because You Didn't Measure Up?
by minimus 36 Replies latest jw friends
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Love_Truth
JH,
I had the same experience. The way I handled it was, that even though some months I would get more than enough hours to Auxilliary pioneer, I never did so. I just held onto the hours "in the bank", so to speak, and I'd make darn sure that I always had 10 hours or more per month to report. Worked for me.
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Special K
Just a side thought min.. on the "dresses not measuring up"..
About a year after my husband and I was disfellowshipped, my hubby took me out shopping and bought me the most beautiful, bold purple suede mini-skirt you ever saw... I loved that skirt and I don't have to say that he "really" liked it too.
sincerely
Special K
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minimus
Funny thing.....SpecialK for some reason U always thought you were a man. Would you please put your pic on the board with mini and all?
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itsallgoodnow
Oh yeah, my tops were too low, my skirts too short and my pants (not inthe KH !) were too baggy or too low, I didn't have enough (any) congregation approved friends, not enough hours in service (avg 2) and skipped most meetings, R-rated movies (what crap), rap music, loud music, going to night clubs, working too much, going to college - but skipping the meetings, driving too fast... and that's just some of the stuff they knew about.
Whoa Nelly - I'm sooooo bad!
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RubyTuesday
I was'nt allowed to wear anything revealing...but somehow It was my fault that boys where lusting after me.
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minimus
Isn't that something how you can still get blamed for other people's problems??? They blame YOU because THEY sinned and then the elders counsel BOTH of you! HA!!