My wonderful Valentine's Day.............

by Tatiana 32 Replies latest jw friends

  • LittleToe
    LittleToe

    Tat:
    (quoting Xena)

    Screw that, you don't NEED a man!
    ...
    I love you April

    She's right - you need a woman

  • Sirona
    Sirona

    (((Tatiana)))

    Sorry you're going through such a hard time. I agree with everyone that you need to get out of this abusive relationship. You can do it! Just think - one day you will be set up living somewhere and this sort of thing will never hurt you or your kids again.

    Sirona

  • calamityjane
    calamityjane

    Sorry to hear about this April. It's not your fault.

    I'm glad you have plans to get out of that situation in the near future.

    take care

    ((((((April)))))))))

    love

    cj

  • arrowstar
    arrowstar

    (((April)))

    You are strong. You are beautiful. You will be happy. I am so proud of you for taking the first steps to remove yourself from this situation. It's not easy. I know. I've walked this path. But, sweetie...you can do this and you will hold your head high.

    I'm here if you need anything

    Lisa

  • talesin
    talesin

    So you trusted him till he showed his true colours ...... still NOT YOUR FAULT HE IS THE ABUSER!

    I'm with Xena - you don't need a man.

    Continue to be strong, stop wasting valuable $$ on being nice to him (hope you can return the gifts ).

    "a woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle." - Gloria Steinem

    tal

  • shamus
    shamus

    Tat,

    I dont know what to say; just thinking of you.

    Brian.

  • shera
    shera

    I'm sorry you are in this situation now. So glad you are getting out of that,keep it up.Things will get better.

    ******hugs******

  • Nosferatu
    Nosferatu
    I don't mean to sound harsh but, "Why did you pick him?" Surely you can do better,

    Maverick, Some are able to make themselves look extremely attractive in the beginning, but get lazy at keeping it up when the relationship progresses. That's when their true colors show. I'm guessing that Tatiana didn't know what she got in the beginning. It's the whole wolf in sheep's clothing.

    Now, I'm in a place where I know no one. He's taking advantage of that. But, it will all backfire. I feel better just talking about it. And I am strong.

    Tatiana, keep this fixed in your mind. I'm guessing you've been through shit before and you got through it. You had the strength to get through your past hardships, and if you've done it once, you'll be able to do it again. Keep yourself focused on getting out of this. You are the most important person in your life, you need to keep your best interests in mind. I wish you well on your escape.

  • Billygoat
    Billygoat

    Tat - check your PM

  • Winston Smith :>D
    Winston Smith :>D

    Tatiana ,

    That sounds awful. I'm glad to hear that you are getting things in place to move on.

    check your pm

    Best,

    Paul

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