Lisa it is nice to have you with us again. Every person should pull their own weight. A man that lives off his lady friend will have a hard time getting any respect from me.
I have a friend who's daughter lives at home with her. The girl is 30 years old and can't drive due to problems with her eyes. Three years ago the daughter's boy friend moved in. Last year they got married. He is 33 and lives at his mother-in-laws house! I get angry just thinking about this guy! He has no problem with it. The girl defends him, and the mother is frustrated and feels like she is being taken advantage of. She should have never let the bum move in. But she did and here we are. I have ZERO respect for this guy!
If my daughter has a guy spend more than one night at our house I talk to him about hanging out here too much. I'm the alpha male here and that's the way it is! Maverick
The only rule I have applies in and out of the bedroom......."Lazy men need not apply"
I work too hard to take care of me and my kid and I would not date a man who didnt work at least as hard as I do. I dont necessarily go by how much $$ is in their check to determine how hard they work though. I have an extremely high stress, pressure job and come home exahusted every night but my check is less than that of some of the big shot admins who walk around the office gossiping and going on 4-5 smoke breaks a day. So money isnt the main factor in determining my respect for a man.
If a man has a past that is as hard to get over as mine is I would respect them if they worked hard at moving on and accomplishing goals even if they hadnt made it to the top of their career yet. If a guy had a nice healthy childhood, supportive parents and friends, a good opportunity for education and he was making less than me, I would have to wonder why and if there isnt a good reason I doubt we would be compatible.
Then again if my man wanted to stay home while I worked..as long as he took care of my kid and all my errands and chores I'd be cool with that too. As long as he was cleaned up and wearing silk boxers and sitting at a candlelit dinner when I got home
So guys...where do you stand? Can you handle an American Woman? Can you tolerate a successful and smart women that may be better looking, taller and have more money than you? Or do you need to be on top. Or if you found yourself hooked up with such a woman, ( did not know she was a Doctor when you first went out) would you break it off?
HELL YES -- MY IDEA OF HEAVEN - A SUCCESSFUL AMERICAN WOMEN - hopefully beter looking and more money -- just no problem -- and I would not mind her being on top sexually either -- not keen on weak women - it is why I have gone off JW women -- too weak and submissive
